The next discord is caused by women, who soon become antithetical to
cultural trends and spread around them their conservative influence—the
women who at the beginning laid the foundations of culture by the
appeal of their love. Women represent the interests of the family and
sexual life; the work of civilization has become more and more men’s
business; it confronts them with ever harder tasks, compels them to
sublimations of instinct which women are not easily able to achieve.
Since man has not an unlimited amount of mental energy at his disposal,
he must accomplish his tasks by distributing his libido to the best
advantage. What he employs for cultural purposes he withdraws to a
great extent from women and his sexual life; his constant association
with men and his dependence on his relations with them even estrange
him from his duties as husband and father. Woman finds herself thus
forced into the background by the claims of culture and she adopts an
inimical attitude towards it.
The tendency of culture to set restrictions upon sexual life is no
less evident than its other aim of widening its sphere of operations.
Even the earliest phase of it, the totemic, brought in its train the
prohibition against incestuous object-choice, perhaps the most maiming
wound ever inflicted throughout the ages on the erotic life of man.
Further limitations are laid on it by taboos, laws and customs, which
touch men as well as women. Various types of culture differ in the
lengths to which they carry this; and the material structure of the
social fabric also affects the measure of sexual freedom that remains.
We have seen that culture obeys the laws of psychological economic
necessity in making the restrictions, for it obtains a great part of
the mental energy it needs by subtracting it from sexuality. Culture
behaves towards sexuality in this respect like a tribe or a section
of the population which has gained the upper hand and is exploiting
the rest to its own advantage. Fear of a revolt among the oppressed
then becomes a motive for even stricter regulations. A high-water mark
in this type of development has been reached in our Western European
civilization. Psychologically it is fully justified in beginning by
censuring any manifestations of the sexual life of children, for there
would be no prospect of curbing the sexual desires of adults if the
ground had not been prepared for it in childhood. Nevertheless there
is no sort of justification for the lengths beyond this to which
civilized society goes in actually denying the existence of these
manifestations, which are not merely demonstrable but positively
glaring. Where sexually mature persons are concerned, object-choice is
further narrowed down to the opposite sex and most of the extragenital
forms of satisfaction are interdicted as perversions. The standard
which declares itself in these prohibitions is that of a sexual life
identical for all; it pays no heed to the disparities in the inborn
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