United States -- Social life and customs -- To 1775; Women -- United States
The meagre sale-money, fifteen shillings, was the usual sum which
changed hands in England at similar transactions, though one dame of
high degree was sold for a hundred guineas. In 1858 the _Stamford
Mercury_ gave an account of a contemporary wife-sale in England, which
was announced through the town by a bellman. The wife was led to the
sale with a halter round her neck, and was “to be taken with all her
faults.” I am glad to say that this base British husband was sharply
punished for his misdemeanor.
It seems scarcely credible that the custom still exists in England, but
in 1882 a husband sold his wife in Alfreton, Derbyshire; and as late
as the 13th July, 1887, Abraham Boothroyd, may his name be _Anathema
maranatha_, sold his wife Clara at Sheffield, England, for five
shillings.
A most marked feature of social life in colonial times was the
belleship of widows. They were literally the queens of society. Fair
maids had so little chance against them, swains were so plentiful for
widows, that I often wonder whence came the willing men who married
the girls the first time, thus offering themselves as the sacrifice at
the matrimonial altar through which the girls could attain the exalted
state of widowhood. Men sighed sometimes in their callow days for
the girl friends of their own age, but as soon as their regards were
cast upon a widow, the girls at once disappear from history, and the
triumphant widow wins the prize.
Another marked aspect of this condition of society was the vast number
of widows in early days. In the South this was accounted for by one
of their own historians as being through the universally intemperate
habits of the husbands, and consequently their frequent early death.
In all the colonies life was hard, exposure was great to carry on any
active business, and the excessive drinking of intoxicating liquors
was not peculiar to the Southern husbands any more than were widows.
In 1698 Boston was said to be “full of widows and orphans, and many
of them very helpless creatures.” It was counted that one sixth of
the communicants of Cotton Mather’s church were widows. It is easy
for us to believe this when we read of the array of relicts among
which that aged but actively amorous gentleman, Judge Sewall, found so
much difficulty in choosing a marriage partner, whose personal and
financial charms he recounted with so much pleasurable minuteness in
his diary.
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