New York (State) -- History -- Colonial period, ca. 1600-1775; New York (State) -- Social life and customs -- To 1775
“Their funeral customs are equally singular. None attend them without
a previous invitation. At the appointed hour they meet at the
neighboring houses or stoops until the corpse is brought out. Ten or
twelve persons are appointed to take the bier altogether, and are not
relieved. The clerk then desires the gentlemen (for ladies never walk
to the grave, nor even attend the funeral unless a near relation) to
fall into the procession. They go to the grave and return to the house
of mourning in the same order. Here the tables are handsomely set and
furnished with cold and spiced wine, tobacco and pipes, and candles,
paper, etc., to light them. The house of mourning is soon converted
into a house of feasting.”
In New York we find old citizens leaving directions in their wills that
their funeral shall be conducted in “the old Dutch fashion,” not liking
the comparatively simpler modern modes.
The customs were nearly the same in English families. At the funeral of
Hon. Rufus King at Jamaica, Long Island, in 1827, which was held upon
an exceptionally hot day in April, silver salvers holding decanters
of wine and spirits, glasses and cigars, were constantly passed, both
indoors and out, where many stood waiting the bearing of the coffin to
the grave.
The transition of the funeral customs of ante-Revolutionary days into
those of our own may partially be learned from this account written in
1858 by Rev. Peter Van Pelt, telling Domine Schoonmaker’s method of
conducting a funeral in the year 1819:
“The deceased had, many years before, provided and laid away the
materials for his own coffin. This one was of the best seasoned and
smoothest boards and beautifully grained. As I entered the room I
observed the coffin elevated on a table in one corner. The Domine,
abstracted and grave, was seated at the upper end; and around in
solemn silence, the venerable and hoary-headed friends of the
deceased. A simple recognition or a half-audible inquiry as one after
another arrived was all that passed. Directly the sexton, followed by
a servant, made his appearance with glasses and decanters. Wine was
handed to each. Some declined; others drank a solitary glass. This
ended, again the sexton presented himself with pipes and tobacco. The
Domine smoked his pipe and a few followed his example. The custom
has become obsolete, and it is well that it has. When the whiffs of
smoke had ceased to curl around the head of the Domine, he arose
with evident feeling, and in a quiet subdued tone, made a short but
apparently impressive address. I judged solely by his appearance and
manner; for although boasting a Holland descent, it was to me an
unknown tongue. A short prayer concluded the service; and then the
sexton taking the lead, followed the Domine, doctor, and pall-bearers
with white scarfs and black gloves. The corpse and long procession of
friends and neighbors proceeded to the churchyard.”
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