New York (State) -- History -- Colonial period, ca. 1600-1775; New York (State) -- Social life and customs -- To 1775
Not only were materials for the coffin secured and made ready during
the lifetime, but often a shroud was made and kept for use. Instances
have been known where a shroud was laid by unused for so many years
that it became too yellow and discolored to use at all, and was
replaced by another. Sometimes a new unlaundered shirt was laid aside
for years to use as a _doed-hemde_. Two curious superstitions were rife
in some localities, especially on Long Island; one was the careful
covering of all the mirrors in the house, from the time of the death
till after the funeral; the other the pathetically picturesque “telling
the bees.” Whittier’s gentle rhyme on the subject has made familiar
to modern readers the custom of “telling the bees of one, gone on the
journey we all must go.”
Both an English and Dutch funeral fashion was the serving to the
attendants of the funeral of funeral-cakes. In New York and New
Netherland these were a distinctive kind of _koeckje_ known as
_doed-koecks_, literally dead-cakes. An old receipt for their
manufacture is thus given by Mrs. Ferris: “Fourteen pounds of flour,
six pounds of sugar, five pounds of butter, one quart of water, two
teaspoonfuls of pearlash, two teaspoonfuls of salt, one ounce of
Caraway seed. Cut in thick dishes four inches in diameter.” They were,
therefore, in substance much like our New Year’s cakes. Sometimes they
were marked with the initials of the deceased person; and often they
were carried home and kept for years as a memento of the dead,--perhaps
of the pleasures of the funeral. One baker in Albany made a specialty
of these cakes, but often they were baked at home. Sometimes two of
these _doed-koecks_ were sent with a bottle of wine and a pair of
gloves as a summons to the funeral.
In Whitby, England, a similar cake is still made by bakers and served
at funerals; but it is sprinkled with white sugar. In Lincolnshire and
Cumberland like customs still exist. “Burial-cakes” were advertised by
a baker in 1748 in the Philadelphia newspapers.
It is frequently asserted that funeral rings were commonly given among
the Dutch. It seems fair to infer that more of them would have been
in existence to-day if the custom had been universal. Scores of them
can be found in New England. There is an enamelled ring marked “K. V.
R., obit Sept. 16, 1719,” which was given at the funeral of Kileaen
Van Renssalaer. One of the Earl of Bellomont is also known, and two
in the Lefferts family, dating towards the close of the past century.
I have heard of a few others in Hudson Valley towns. Perhaps with
gifts of gloves, spoons, bottles of wine, _doed-koecks_, scarfs, or
handkerchiefs, rings would have been superfluous.
It will be noted in all these references to funerals herein given that
the services were held in private houses; it was not until almost our
own day that the funerals of those of Dutch descent were held in the
churches.
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