New York (State) -- History -- Colonial period, ca. 1600-1775; New York (State) -- Social life and customs -- To 1775
Interments were made under the churches; and, by special payment, a
church-attendant could be buried under the seat in which he was wont
to sit during his lifetime. The cost of interment in the Flatbush
church was two pounds for the body of a child under six years; three
pounds for a person from six to sixteen years of age; four pounds for
an adult; and in addition “those who are inclined to be permitted
to be interred in the church are required to pay the expense of
every person.” I don’t know exactly what this ambiguous sentence can
mean, but it was at any rate an extra charge “for the profit of the
schoolmaster,” who dug the grave and carried the dirt out of the
church, and was paid twenty-seven guilders for this sexton’s work for
an adult, and less for a younger person and hence a smaller grave.
Usually the domines were buried in front of the pulpit where they had
stood so often in life.
After newspaper-days arrived in the colony, there blossomed in print
scores of long death-notices, thoroughly in the taste of the day, but
not to our taste. In the “New York Gazette” of December 24, 1750, we
find a characteristic one:--
“Last Friday Morning departed this Life after a lingering Illness the
Honorable Mrs. Roddam, wife to Robert Roddam, Esq. Commander of his
Majesty’s Ship Greyhound, now on this Station, and eldest Daughter
of his Excellency our Governor. We hear she is to be Interred this
Evening.
“Good Mr. Parker--Dont let the Character of our Deceased Friend, Mrs.
Roddam, slip through your Fingers, as that of her Person through those
of the Doctors. That she was a most affable and perfectly Good-Natured
young Lady, with Good Sense and Politeness is well known to all her
Acquaintances, and became one of the most affectionate Wives.
“Immatura peri, sed tu felicior, Annos
Vivi mens, Conjux optime, vive tuos
were the Sentiments of her Later Moments when I had the Honour to
attend her. As this is intended as a small Tribute to the Manes of my
dear departed Friend, your inserting of it will oblige one of your
constant Female Readers and Humble Servant.”
Another, of a well-known colonial dame, reads thus;--
“Last Monday died in the 80th year of her Age, and on Thursday
was decently interred in the Family Vault at Morrisania: Isabella
Morris, Widow and Relict of his Excellency Lewis Morris, Esq., Late
Governor of the Province of New Jersey: A Lady endowed with every
Qualification Requisite to render the Sex agreeable and entertaining,
through all the Various scenes of Life. She was a pattern of Conjugal
Affection, a tender Parent, a sincere Friend, and an excellent
Oeconomist.
She was
Liberal, without Prodigality
Frugal, without Parsimony
Chearful, without Levity
Exalted, without Pride.
In person, Amiable
In conversation, Affable
In friendship, Faithful
Of Envy, void.
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