New York (State) -- History -- Colonial period, ca. 1600-1775; New York (State) -- Social life and customs -- To 1775
Though second and third marriages were common enough among the early
settlers of New Netherland, I find that usually attempts at restraint
of the wife were made through wills ordering sequent loss of property
if she married again. Nearly all the wills are more favorable to the
children than to the wife. Old Cornelius Van Catts, of Bushwick, who
died in 1726, devised his estate to his wife Annetje with this gruff
condition: “If she happen to marry again, then I geff her nothing of my
estate, real or personal. But my wife can be master of all by bringing
up to good learning my two children. But if she comes to marry again,
then her husband can take her away from the farm.” John Burroughs, of
Newtown, Long Island, in his will dated 1678 expressed the general
feeling of husbands towards their prospective widows when he said, “If
my wife marry again, then her husband must provide for her as I have.”
Often joint-wills were made by husband and wife, each with equal rights
if survivor. This was peculiarly a Dutch fashion. In Fordham in 1670
and 1673, Claude de Maistre and his wife Hester du Bois, Pierre Cresson
and his wife Rachel Cloos, Gabriel Carboosie and Brieta Wolferts,
all made joint-wills. The last-named husband in his half of the will
enjoined loss of property if Brieta married again. Perhaps he thought
there had been enough marrying and giving in marriage already in that
family, for Brieta had had three husbands,--a Dane, a Frieslander, and
a German,--and his first wife had had four, and he--well, several, I
guess; and there were a number of children; and you couldn’t expect any
poor Dutchman to find it easy to make a will in all that confusion. In
Albany may be found several joint-wills, among them two dated 1663 and
1676; others in the Schuyler family. There is something very touching
in the thought of those simple-minded husbands and wives, in mutual
confidence and affection, going, as we find, before the notary together
and signing their will together, “out of love and special nuptial
affection, not thereto misled or sinisterly persuaded,” she bequeathing
her dower or her father’s legacy or perhaps her own little earnings,
and he his hard-won guilders. It was an act significant and emblematic
of the ideal unison of interests and purposes which existed as a rule
in the married life of these New York colonists.
Mrs. Grant adds abundant testimony to the domestic happiness and the
marital affection of residents of Albany a century later. She states:--
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