New York (State) -- History -- Colonial period, ca. 1600-1775; New York (State) -- Social life and customs -- To 1775
Of highly colored romance in the life of the Dutch colonists there
was little. Sometimes a lover was seized by the Indians, and his fair
betrothed mourned him through a long life. In one case she died after
a few years of grief and waiting, and on the very day of his return
from his savage prison to his old Long Island home he met the sad
little funeral procession bearing her to the grave. Another humbler
romance of Gravesend was when a sorrowing widower fell in love with a
modest milkmaid at first sight as she milked her father’s cows; ere the
milking was finished he told his love, rode to town on a fast horse for
a governor’s license, and married and carried off his fair Grietje. A
century later a fair Quakeress of Flushing won in like manner, when
milking, the attention and affection of Walter Franklin of New York.
Another and more strange meeting of lovers was when young Livingstone,
the first of the name in New York, poor and unknown, came to the
bedside of a dying Van Rensselaer in Albany to draw up a will. The
dying man, with a jealousy stronger than death, said to his beautiful
wife, Alida Schuyler, “Send him away, he will be your second husband;”
and he was,--perhaps the thought provoked the deed.
Even if there were few startling or picturesque romances or brilliant
matches, there was plenty of ever-pleasant wooing. New Amsterdam was
celebrated, just before its cession to the English, for its young
and marriageable folk and its betrothals. This is easily explained;
nearly all the first emigrants were young married people, and the years
assigned to one generation had passed, and their children had grown
up and come to mating-time. Shrewd travellers, who knew where to get
good capable wives, wooed and won their brides among the Dutch-American
fair ones. Mr. Valentine says: “Several of the daughters of wealthy
burghers were mated to young Englishmen whose first occasions were
of a temporary character.” The beautiful surroundings of the little
town tempted all to love-making, and the unchaperoned simplicity of
society aided early “matching.” The Locust-Trees, a charming grove on
a bluff elevation on the North River a little south of the present
Trinity Churchyard, was a famous courting-place; or tender lovers could
stroll down the “Maiden’s Path;” or, for still longer walks, to the
beautiful and baleful “Kolck,” or “Collect,” or “Fresh Water,” as it
was sequentially called; and I cannot imagine any young and susceptible
hearts ever passing without some access of sentiment through any green
field so sweetly named as the “Clover Waytie.”
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