But what a picture of domestic misery and stupid cruelty is unveiled
by the other side of this extraordinary correspondence! No wonder that
girls go wrong and throw their womanhood away in sin and anguish, when
their youth is passed with fathers and mothers whose stupidity is such
that they confound brutality with discipline, and are not ashamed to
boast of the outrages they commit on their own flesh and blood. If we
have appeared to cite the complacent suggestions of such people with
patience, it is because no words of condemnation could be so severe as
their own description of themselves and their ways. To those parents
the great and sacred gift of children has come like pearls to swine.
Perhaps in many cases it is their heads more than their hearts which
are at fault, and their dense ignorance leaves them with no sense of
right. But, whatever may be the cause, that which they call love of
obedience is lust of powder and wicked impatience; they play the tyrant
over their helpless offspring and think themselves virtuous, while they
are absolutely criminal. If the secrets of all hearts were known, it
would probably be seen that the parents who flogged and tortured their
children for lies and evil conduct first taught them those offences by
their own characters, and deserved the rod much more thoroughly. This
correspondence is a serious thing; it reveals the existence of a whole
world of unnatural and indefensible private cruelty of which law ought
to have cognisance. We do not live in Roman times, when a parent might
sell a son into slavery or take his life. These are Christian days,
and each human soul has its dignity and its rights, to be respected
and enforced. It would do some of these smirking malefactors good to
be denounced and punished at the police court for what is not less an
assault with violence because it is committed by a child’s natural
protector. We have all learned from Mr. Rarey that whipping is the
worst way, and gentleness the best way, with horses, dogs, and the
dumb creation generally. We have abolished flogging in the army, and
it will linger only during this session in the navy. The cat is now
reserved as an indescribable disgrace for garotters in goal, and—as it
seems—for the tender girl-children of many a ‘respectable’ household.
Emphatically we denounce this relic of the past generation; we say that
to beat a girl-child is shameful and abominable, and never yet had any
result but mischief to the victim and degradation to the executioner.
As one reads these detestable confessions, there can no longer be any
surprise felt that young girls go astray, even from the homes of the
well-to-do classes. They escape from the vile discipline of the scourge
like maddened creatures, without a vestige of self-respect or honour.
We did not expect to find the ancient fallacy of Virtue taught by
Violence displaying its cloven feet in so many households.
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