_A Rector_ writes: ‘I am glad to see that the subject of the punishment
of children is again alluded to in your columns. I think it was
dropped too soon. Surely it is as important and interesting a subject
to Englishwomen as tight-lacing which has occupied more time and space
than this thoroughly practical and domestic question.
Although I am only in early middle life, I am old-fashioned enough to
regret the disuse of corporal punishment both at home and at school;
and, with many others, I believe that the loss of parental authority
and the precious independence and lawlessness of young persons, are due
in no small degree to this fact. No longer ago than my own childhood
it was otherwise. I and my brothers were whipped, and I believe we
are all the better for it. At any rate, we never doubted then or
since that our good mother was right; I have never loved or respected
her the less for our well-deserved punishment. Nor was the use of
the rod confined to boys. I remember we used to look with a sort of
awe upon a lady who lived near us and attended the same church with
a family of girls, because it was the current report that she was a
very strict disciplinarian and used the birch unsparingly. Nor could I
ever understand why girls should not be whipped just as much as boys,
if they deserved it. If the good old custom had not been allowed to
go out, there would not have been so many girls of the period at the
present day. A dignitary of the Church whom I know was so convinced of
this, that when he lost his wife he still occasionally used the rod
himself while his daughters were still children. In former times both
home governesses and schoolmistresses used the rod, both with boys and
girls, as a matter of course. I could quote instances in abundance in
proof of this; but things are changed now, and for the worse. The birch
is happily still used in all the older grammar schools for boys, but I
fear that in girls’ schools it is seldom heard of—at least, I should be
very glad to hear it if your correspondents can report otherwise.
I remember, some fifteen years ago, a boy told it me as a rather
wonderful thing that at the school where his sister was, they birched
the girls just like boys. Whether they do so still I do not know.
I shall be glad to say a few words more on this topic on a future
occasion.’
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