_Tiny_ agrees with the remarks made by _An English Lady_ on the
birchrod question. There is something in it perfectly revolting to
any refined female mind. If children are properly brought up, with a
clear knowledge of right and wrong, their education being based upon
sound religious teaching, depend upon it at fifteen years of age they
will not require such a degrading punishment. _Tiny_ is a mother, and
she would never punish her child in such a way, and were she positively
compelled to do so the pain and grief to herself would be far greater
than any the child would feel; and most certainly _Tiny_ would never
boast of the punishment as _A Mother_ does.
Children are gifted with reasoning powers, and should be taught that
their first duty is strict obedience—the unquestioning obedience which
is cheerfully given because they know no-one can have their welfare so
much at heart as their parents. And mothers should so act as to win
the respect of their children. How can an intelligent girl of fifteen
respect the mother who chastises her as she would an unruly spaniel?
Where such correction is needed, depend upon it the bringing up of the
child is at fault. Teach a child that her mother is her best friend,
enter into all her childish pleasures and sorrows, and at fifteen she
will be a companion, not a plague.
_A Scotch Mother_ says: It appears from the letters in your magazine
that some correspondent wishes further information on the subject
of whipping children. Now, before the subject closes, I would be
much obliged to any of your lady correspondents who would give me
information through your columns on the following points:—Whether a
whipping has more good effect on boys than girls—that is to say, which
requires the rod to be used most seldom; and also at what age can boys
be whipped by ladies, my opinion being that except at a very early age
few ladies can inflict a chastisement on boys sufficiently severe to be
remembered.’
In regard to the proper chastisement of the young, _Agnes_ writes:
‘While you have so many opinions expressed both for and against
corporal punishment for girls, perhaps the opinion of one who has
herself suffered during her youth may be acceptable.
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