Earliest Years at Vassar: Personal RecollectionsWood, Frances Ann
History
Earliest Years at Vassar: Personal Recollections
Wood, Frances Ann
Vassar College
It was impressed upon the whole family that the higher education of
women was an experiment, and that the world was looking on, watching
its success or defeat. The good of the college was the watchword, and
not mere gratification of individual preferences. Many a girl has
admitted that her first sense of the importance of law and order came
from the rules she often rebelled against. If too much paternal
government was whispered even thus early, a student with several
roommates in a small parlor, and subject to intrusive friends in study
hours without protection of rule, had some reason to be thankful for
it. There was only one building, and no escape from it to a quiet
place to work under better conditions. All had to live up to a
tremendously high standard--the ordinary one not enough for those
days. It was difficult to keep on this mountain peak continually, but
if we fell off now and then it was from no lack of admonition. "The
good of the college!" "The good of the college!" was reiterated
constantly. Light-hearted law breakers caught visiting in study hours
or in silent time, or in some other equally innocent, reprehensible
proceeding would gravely parody in excuse, "We did it for the good of
the college." But nobody had daring sufficient to let this answer
reach the "higher powers."
Frequent absence from college was not thought advisable. Even the
student whose home was in town was restricted, once in three weeks
when she went home to spend the night, being the rule, but not
strictly enforced. Holidays and times when there was any special
festivity there was no escape. You were made to feel so essential in
the family life as to consider it a little disloyal to evade any
function. Rarely did any one other than the student living in town go
away for Thanksgiving Day. A great deal was made of this festival, the
dinner and the entertainment afterwards.
The Christmas vacation was not the cheerless occasion of wholesale
departure, as in this day of large numbers. The students, who from
necessity had to stay over, or who preferred to--as many did--could
hardly have had more done for their pleasure and entertainment if they
had been visiting in a private family. In addition to the various
plans among themselves, the college gave them masquerade and dancing
parties, musical or theatrical entertainment, candy pulls, and
sleigh rides, so no girl had reason to complain of dullness, or envy
her fortunate roommate at home. One Christmas, the idea of an original
play was started, but would have fallen through if Dr. Raymond had not
come to the rescue with advice and ready pen. He entered into the
spirit of the thing immensely, taking a part with other officer
volunteers, making a brilliant success of what at first promised
forlorn failure.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account