Education -- Early works to 1800; England -- Social life and customs -- Early works to 1800; Etiquette; Home economics -- Early works to 1800; Table
“This neuerthelesse I vtterlie mislike in the poorer sort of them,
for the wealthier doo sildome offend herein: that being of
themselues without competent wit, they are so carelesse in the
education of their children (wherein their husbands also are to be
blamed,) by means whereof verie manie of them neither fearing God,
neither regarding either manners or obedience, do oftentimes come
to confusion, which (if anie correction or discipline had beene
vsed toward them in youth) might haue prooued good members of
their common-wealth & countrie, by their good seruice and
industrie.” --_Descr. of Britaine_, Holinshed, i. 115, col. 2.
This is borne out by Ascham, who says that young men up to 17 were well
looked after, but after that age were turned loose to get into all the
mischief they liked:
“In deede, from seven to seventene, yong jentlemen commonlie be
carefullie enough brought up: But from seventene to seven and
twentie (the most dangerous tyme of all a mans life, and most
slipperie to stay well in) they have commonlie the rein of all
licens in their owne hand, and speciallie soch as do live in the
Court. And that which is most to be merveled at, commonlie the
wisest and also best men be found the fondest fathers in this
behalfe. And if som good father wold seek some remedie herein, yet
the mother (if the household of our Lady) had rather, yea, and
will to, have her sonne cunnyng and bold, in making him to lyve
trimlie when he is yong, than by learning and travell to be able
to serve his Prince & his countrie, both wiselie in peace, and
stoutlie in warre, whan he is old.
“The fault is in your selves, ye noble mens sonnes, and therfore
ye deserve the greater blame, that commonlie the meaner mens
children cum to be the wisest councellours, and greatest doers, in
the weightie affaires of this realme.” --_Scholemaster_, ed. Mayor,
p. 39-40.
Note lastly, on this subject of private tuition, that Mulcaster in his
_Elementarie_, 1582, complains greatly of rich people aping the custom
of princes in having private tutors for their boys, and withdrawing them
from public schools where the spirit of emulation against other boys
would make them work. The course he recommends is, that rich people
should send their sons, with their tutors, to the public schools, and so
get the advantage of both kinds of tuition.
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