authority, only to the highest rank; _that_ being permitted to speak
truth, as having none above it to court or conform unto. Every man
alone is sincere. At the entrance of a second person, hypocrisy begins.
We parry and fend the approach of our fellow-man by compliments, by
gossip, by amusements, by affairs. We cover up our thought from him
under a hundred folds. I knew a man who under a certain religious
frenzy cast off this drapery, and omitting all compliment and
commonplace, spoke to the conscience of every person he encountered,
and that with great insight and beauty. At first he was resisted, and
all men agreed he was mad. But persisting—as indeed he could not help
doing—for some time in this course, he attained to the advantage of
bringing every man of his acquaintance into true relations with him. No
man would think of speaking falsely with him, or of putting him off
with any chat of markets or reading-rooms. But every man was
constrained by so much sincerity to the like plaindealing, and what
love of nature, what poetry, what symbol of truth he had, he did
certainly show him. But to most of us society shows not its face and
eye, but its side and its back. To stand in true relations with men in
a false age is worth a fit of insanity, is it not? We can seldom go
erect. Almost every man we meet requires some civility,—requires to be
humored; he has some fame, some talent, some whim of religion or
philanthropy in his head that is not to be questioned, and which spoils
all conversation with him. But a friend is a sane man who exercises not
my ingenuity, but me. My friend gives me entertainment without
requiring any stipulation on my part. A friend therefore is a sort of
paradox in nature. I who alone am, I who see nothing in nature whose
existence I can affirm with equal evidence to my own, behold now the
semblance of my being, in all its height, variety, and curiosity,
reiterated in a foreign form; so that a friend may well be reckoned the
masterpiece of nature.
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