Frances Mary Buss and her work for educationRidley, Annie E.
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Frances Mary Buss and her work for education
Ridley, Annie E.
Buss, Frances Mary, 1827-1894
“I have every reason to remember her with tender regard, and to
deeply regret her loss. From the fact that I was motherless, she
took an especial interest in my studies and health, making my
father and myself deeply grateful to her. I more than ever feel
what a friend I have lost. Camden Town is very lonely without
her.”
Mrs. Marks continues—
“And then the general impression of geniality and life which was
always so conspicuous! She was so _warm_, everything about her
was _infused with warmth_. There was no cold impersonality in
any of her thoughts. They were all alive. I need not say how
kind she was.”
This kindness was all-inclusive, going down to the least as well as
rising to the highest. Among the hundreds of letters of condolence
received by Miss Buss’ family was one from the firm which undertook the
charge of the school clocks, speaking strongly of the kind and gracious
way in which their _employés_ had always been treated.
And there is a characteristic story of her in connection with her old
cabman Downes, who drove her, year after year, to school and to church.
On one occasion, hurrying to catch the train to Cambridge, Downes upset
his cab, and Miss Buss was extricated without having time to decide
whether she was hurt or not, her business being too important to admit
of delay. Her first act on reaching her destination was to telegraph to
Downes to assure him that she was not hurt.
All records go to show how lasting was her interest in all who made any
claim on her, confirming the words of another of her staff, when she
says, “Girls, as soon as they left school, felt that they had a friend
ever ready to sympathize with them in sorrow or in joy. A happy marriage
was a delight to her”—a remark confirmed by a passage in one of Miss
Buss’ letters, where she says, “I wish Ada would bring Mr. Z—— to Myra.
I like to see my _sons-in-law_. He cannot be shyer than Mr. Q——.”
Here is a note just after the opening of the new buildings by the Prince
and Princess of Wales, written for the wedding-day of one of her pupils—
“DEAR MARY,
“Just a line to express my love and good wishes for you
and yours to-morrow.
“May God bless you in your new state of life! I shall be with
you in spirit, and think of you all.
“I hope you have received the little tea-table. The mats for it
have been delivered I know, but I am not sure about the table.
“I hope Eleanor will send me a short note to say where you have
gone, and to give me some account of to-morrow’s ceremony.
“With my dear love and good wishes,
“Believe me, yours affectionately,
“FRANCES M. BUSS.”
To “meet the glad with joyful smiles” would always have been easy to
her, but she was more often called “to wipe the weeping eyes;” for the
words of another of the recent pupils was curiously true—
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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