Frances Mary Buss and her work for educationRidley, Annie E.
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Frances Mary Buss and her work for education
Ridley, Annie E.
Buss, Frances Mary, 1827-1894
“Of late years it has often struck me as melancholy that the
most successful and happiest of her old pupils, settled in homes
of their own, or teaching in schools at a distance, could do
little more than send an occasional letter, or pay a flying
visit, while numbers of the unsuccessful, the weak and helpless,
came back to her for the advice and help she never failed to
give. Seeing, as she did, numbers of these, she was very
strongly impressed by the absolute necessity for young girls to
be trained to some employment by which they might, if necessary,
earn a livelihood. For women to be dependent on brothers and
relations, she considered an evil to be avoided at all costs,
and she tried to keep before us the fact that training for any
work must develop a woman’s intellect and powers, and therefore
make her—married or single—a better and a nobler being.”
Another friend adds on this point—
“She was so kind and unprejudiced by unconventionality, that she
was just as interested and sympathetic and helpful towards an
old pupil, who came to her about trying to set up a business
(such as dressmaking or millinery), as she was to one going to
Girton or trying for a head-mistress-ship.”
As instance of the thoroughness that characterized her efforts to help
the girls, one of them gives a little experience which will come home to
many a mother, as she recalls the solicitude with which Miss Buss went
to any medical consultation needed by delicate girls under her care—
“I left school to become a governess myself, and during my first
holiday she made an opportunity for a quiet talk with me,
entering into all my plans and difficulties, and helping me
greatly by her wise and loving counsel. No effort was too great
for her to make, if she could thereby help or benefit any of us.
Many years later, when my sister had been under Dr. Playfair’s
treatment, he ordered her abroad, and she was to be accompanied
by a companion of whom he should approve. Miss Buss _not_ only
offered to let her join her party, shortly to start for
Marienbad, but _went_ herself to see Dr. Playfair at eight a.m.
(the only time she was free during term-time), in order that he
might be satisfied with her as an escort. This meeting proved a
mutual pleasure to them.”
It is pleasant to know that, out of this special thoughtfulness, there
came to Miss Buss, not only the companionship in travel, but frequent
resting in the happy home of these girls; and also—a very great
satisfaction—the gift to the school of the “Crane Scholarship,” to mark
their mother’s appreciation of this motherly care of her children.
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