heart disease to our inherited disorders?
Boxing and fencing are also favourite exercises, as well as polo and
tennis amongst games. One of the more serious of diversions is the duel,
the first of which must be fought in early youth, and the last when
temperament and politics shall have said their final word. Then come the
amusements of club life, which absorb a good deal of masculine leisure,
of course, and where men meet to talk and be entertained, as well as to
eat, and read the newspapers. The races and the horse-show are sources
of pleasure at which every self-respecting Parisian drinks. Not to be
connected with horses or exhibitions would be almost as bad as not to
possess an automobile, not to be seen in the _foyer_ on great theatrical
nights, not to have fought a duel. But beyond even all these pleasures
are the noisy suppers of the fashionable restaurant, where everybody
who is anybody meets “tout Paris”; where the dresses of the women find
rivalry in the decorations of the men, and the scene approaches the
ideal paradise, the mundane city peopled with brilliant personages.
In all things the French _bourgeoise_ is more difficult to divert than
her aristocratic sister. She is much more particular and infinitely
more restricted in her ideas upon feminine liberty. While the women of
the upper class arrogate to themselves the right to amuse themselves
in whatever fashion they like, with lovers or without them, bicycling,
skating, shooting, on horseback, in automobile (the Duchesse d’Uzès was
the first Frenchwoman to obtain a certificate as woman driver of the
motor-car), private theatricals, they can smoke or scale the mountains
of the moon with impunity. All these varied avenues of distraction
are rigorously denied the _bourgeoise_. She is the most conventional
of creatures, and anything like marked originality in one of her sex
terrifies her and fills her with distrust. She was bred in the conviction
that girls should resemble their great-grandmothers, be clothed until
marriage in the integrity of imbecility, and after marriage in the
narrowness of piety, and know no other amusements than those strictly
suitable to a “feminine” woman. The path her mother and grandmother trod
is the path she must never deviate from. She must be just as religious
as they were, taking care, however, to follow the fashions of her own
class, in order to guard from so dangerous and disreputable a pitfall
as originality, which, with her, means pronounced eccentricity. When
she lives in Paris she dresses well; but the province often transforms
her into an inconceivable shape of dowdiness. In Paris, thanks to the
lectures, music, drama, literature, the multiple elements of culture,
it is impossible for her to escape, unless her days be entirely devoted
to domestic economy and good works; she is rarely destitute of that
agreeable worldliness that makes commerce with her, however shallow and
superficial she may be, facile and often instructive. And when she has
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