Friendly Visiting among the Poor: A Handbook for Charity Workers — John Shaqi
Friendly Visiting among the Poor: A Handbook for Charity WorkersRichmond, Mary Ellen
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Friendly Visiting among the Poor: A Handbook for Charity Workers
Richmond, Mary Ellen
Friendly visiting
The charitable are only beginning to discover the importance of such
personal and preventive work among children, founded upon an intimate
knowledge of their habits and character. Such work must be done in
large measure by volunteers, and the friendly visitor's relations to
poor families render him specially fit for the service. The
illustration just given emphasizes the importance of guiding a child's
reading. It is not enough to teach the children to use the Public
Library; we should know what they are reading and teach them to enjoy
the right books. An admirable system of lending libraries having this
object in view has been established by the Boston Children's Aid
Society. These little Home Libraries in small {87} hanging book cases
are placed in certain homes in poor neighborhoods, and the visitor in
charge of a library meets at regular intervals a group of children of
the neighborhood who form the library circle, explaining the books to
them, playing games, and getting well acquainted. A friendly visitor
might easily establish such a library in any poor neighborhood; the
details of the plan may be had upon application to the Children's Aid
Society.
Training in citizenship must not be overlooked. Our boys and girls
should know more about our country than their parents can teach them.
The publications of the Patriotic League, 230 W. 13th St., New York,
will be found very useful. The League issues a Young Citizens'
Catechism and a monthly journal, "Our Country." The Sunday-school is
another help to the visitor, and it is well to know not only the
public-school teacher, but the Sunday-school teacher, whose cooperation
should be sought in any plans for the children's welfare. One
Sunday-school is a help, but two or more Sunday-schools for one child
are thoroughly demoralizing, and we {88} should do our best to
discourage any child in whom we are interested from going to more than
one.
It too often happens that children are sent by their parents to several
churches with the deliberate purpose of making profitable charitable
connections. This habit of thrusting the children forward to excite
sympathy, of sending them to ask help of teachers, clergymen, and
charity agents, is so obviously bad for the children that one wonders
how the charitable can ever have permitted it to become so general.
Children should never be permitted to deliver begging notes and
messages from a family in which there is an able-bodied adult.
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