Friendly Visiting among the Poor: A Handbook for Charity Workers — John Shaqi
Friendly Visiting among the Poor: A Handbook for Charity WorkersRichmond, Mary Ellen
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Friendly Visiting among the Poor: A Handbook for Charity Workers
Richmond, Mary Ellen
Friendly visiting
Of all charitable practices that help to manufacture misery and vice,
the practice of giving to child-beggars on the street is the most
pernicious. One boy who has become a skilful beggar teaches another,
and first the money goes for candy and cigarettes, then for gambling
and low theatres. The next step is petty thieving, the next burglary,
and then follow commitment to a {89} reformatory, which often fails to
reform, and, later, a criminal career. I have seen children travel
this road so often that it is difficult to speak without bitterness of
the unthinking alms that led them into temptation. Sometimes parents
connive at child-begging, but often they know nothing of it until the
children have grown incorrigible. A strict enforcement of the laws
against child-begging is very difficult until every one is convinced of
the cruelty of giving money to unknown children on the street or at the
door.
It sometimes becomes the visitor's painful duty to protect children
from cruelty, criminal neglect, or immorality by legal removal from
their parents' control. Here a society for the protection of children
will often render valuable assistance. Such a society is likely to be
hampered in its work by the unwillingness of charitable visitors to
tell what they know in court. Sometimes this is due to timidity, and
sometimes to a fear of losing influence in the neighborhood. Clergymen
have been known to refuse their testimony for this latter reason. The
friendly visitor, {90} whose interest is centred in only one family in
the neighborhood, need not be so cautious, and his continuous visiting,
extending over many months, makes his testimony very valuable. No fear
of losing influence with other members of the family should prevent him
from speaking out where a child's future is at stake. Just a few
months more in evil surroundings may mean moral death to the child, and
neighbors are notoriously unwilling to tell what they know.
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