Friends in Council — First SeriesHelps, Arthur, Sir
Philosophy
Friends in Council — First Series
Helps, Arthur, Sir
Conduct of life
_Ellesmere_. By the way, there is a passage in one of Hazlitt’s essays,
I thought of while you were reading, about remorse and religious
melancholy. He speaks of mixing up religion and morality; and then goes
on to say, that Calvinistic notions have obscured and prevented
self-knowledge. {42}
Give me the essay—there is a passage I want to look at. This comparison
of life to a mountain stream, the rocks brought down by it being the
actions, is too much worked out. When we speak of similes not going on
four legs, it implies, I think, that a simile is at best but a
four-legged animal. Now this is almost a centipede of a simile. I think
I have had the same thought as yours here, and I have compared the life
of an individual to a curve. You both smile. Now I thought that
Dunsford at any rate would be pleased with this reminiscence of college
days. But to proceed with my curve. You may have numbers of the points
through which it passes given, and yet know nothing of the nature of the
curve itself. See, now, it shall pass through here and here, but how it
will go in the interval, what is the law of its being, we know not. But
this simile would be too mathematical, I fear.
_Milverton_. I hold to the centipede.
_Ellesmere_. Not a word has Dunsford said all this time.
_Dunsford_. I like the essay. I was not criticising as we went along,
but thinking that perhaps the greatest charm of books is, that we see in
them that other men have suffered what we have. Some souls we ever find
who could have responded to all our agony, be it what it may. This at
least robs misery of its loneliness.
_Ellesmere_. On the other hand, the charm of intercourse with our
fellows, when we are in sadness, is that they do not reflect it in any
way. Each keeps his own trouble to himself, and often pretending to
think and care about other things, comes to do so for the time.
_Dunsford_. Well, but you might choose books which would not reflect
your troubles.
_Ellesmere_. But the fact of having to make a choice to do this, does
away, perhaps, with some part of the benefit: whereas, in intercourse
with living men, you take what you find, and you find that neither your
trouble, nor any likeness of it, is absorbing other people. But this is
not the whole reason: the truth is, the life and impulses of other men
are catching; you cannot explain exactly how it is that they take you out
of yourself.
_Milverton_. No man is so confidential as when he is addressing the
whole world. You find, therefore, more comfort for sorrow in books than
in social intercourse. I mean more direct comfort; for I agree with what
Ellesmere says about society.
_Ellesmere_. In comparing men and books, one must always remember this
important distinction—that one can put the books down at any time. As
Macaulay says, “Plato is never sullen. Cervantes is never petulant.
Demosthenes never comes unseasonably. Dante never stays too long.”
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