Besides the joy of friendship, and its aid in matters of counsel, a
third of its noble fruits is the direct _help_ it can give us in the
difficulties of life. It gives strength to the character. It sobers
and steadies through the responsibility for each other which it means.
When men face the world together, and are ready to stand shoulder to
shoulder, the sense of comradeship makes each strong. This help may
not often be called into play, but just to know that it is there if
needed is a great comfort, to know that if one fall the other will lift
him up. The very word friendship suggests kindly help and aid in
distress. Shakespeare applies the word in _King Lear_ to an inanimate
thing with this meaning of helpfulness,--
Gracious my lord, hard by here is a hovel;
Some _friendship_ will it lend you 'gainst the tempest.
Sentiment does not amount to much, if it is not an inspiring force to
lead to gentle and to generous deeds, when there is need. The fight is
not so hard, when we know that we are not alone, but that there are
some who think of us, and pray for us, and would gladly help us if they
get the opportunity.
Comradeship is one of the finest facts, and one of the strongest forces
in life. A mere strong man, however capable, and however singly
successful, is of little account by himself. There is no glamour of
romance in his career. The kingdom of Romance belongs to David, not to
Samson--to David, with his eager, impetuous, affectionate nature, for
whom three men went in the jeopardy of life to bring him a drink of
water; and all for love of him. It is not the self-centred,
self-contained hero, who lays hold of us; it is ever the comradeship of
heroes. Dumas' Three Musketeers (and the Gascon who made a greater
fourth), with their oath, "Each for all, and all for each," inherit
that kingdom of Romance, with all that ever have been tied in bands of
love.
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