Robertson of Brighton in one of his letters tells how a friend of his
had, through cowardice or carelessness, missed an opportunity of
putting him right on a point with which he was charged, and so left him
defenceless against a slander. With his native sweetness of soul, he
contents himself with the exclamation, "How rare it is to have a friend
who will defend you thoroughly and boldly!" Yet that is just one of
the loyal things a friend can do, sometimes when it would be impossible
for a man himself to do himself justice with others. Some things,
needful to be said or done under certain circumstances, cannot be
undertaken without indelicacy by the person concerned, and the keen
instinct of a friend should tell him that he is needed. A little
thoughtfulness would often suggest things that could be done for our
friends, that would make them feel that the tie which binds us to them
is a real one. That man is rich indeed, who possesses thoughtful,
tactful friends, with whom he feels safe when present, and in whose
hands his honor is secure when absent. If there be no loyalty, there
can be no great friendship. Most of our friendships lack the
distinction of greatness, because we are not ready for little acts of
service. Without these our love dwindles down to a mere sentiment, and
ceases to be the inspiring force for good to both lives, which it was
at the beginning.
The aid we may receive from friendship may be of an even more powerful,
because of a more subtle, nature than material help. It may be a
safeguard against temptation. The recollection of a friend whom we
admire is a great force to save us from evil, and to prompt us to good.
The thought of his sorrow in any moral break-down of ours will often
nerve us to stand firm. What would my friend think of me, if I did
this, or consented to this meanness? Could I look him in the face
again, and meet the calm pure gaze of his eye? Would it not be a blot
on our friendship, and draw a veil over our intercourse? No friendship
is worth the name which does not elevate, and does not help to nobility
of conduct and to strength of character. It should give a new zest to
duty, and a new inspiration to all that is good.
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