The cynic may speak of the now obsolete sentiment of friendship, and he
can find much to justify his cynicism. Indeed, on the first blush, if
we look at the relative place the subject holds in ancient as compared
with modern literature, we might say that friendship is a sentiment
that is rapidly becoming obsolete. In Pagan writers friendship takes a
much larger place than it now receives. The subject bulks largely in
the works of Plato, Aristotle, Epictetus, Cicero. And among modern
writers it gets most importance in the writings of the more
Pagan-spirited, such as Montaigne. In all the ancient systems of
philosophy, friendship was treated as an integral part of the system.
To the Stoic it was a blessed occasion for the display of nobility and
the native virtues of the human mind. To the Epicurean it was the most
refined of the pleasures which made life worth living. In the
Nicomachean Ethics, Aristotle makes it the culminating point, and out
of ten books gives two to the discussion of Friendship. He makes it
even the link of connection between his treatise on Ethics and his
companion treatise on Politics. It is to him both the perfection of
the individual life, and the bond that holds states together.
Friendship is not only a beautiful and noble thing for a man, but the
realization of it is also the ideal for the state; for if citizens be
friends, then justice, which is the great concern of all organized
societies, is more than secured. Friendship is thus made the flower of
Ethics, and the root of Politics.
Plato also makes friendship the ideal of the state, where all have
common interests and mutual confidence. And apart from its place of
prominence in systems of thought, perhaps a finer list of beautiful
sayings about friendship could be culled from ancient writers than from
modern. Classical mythology also is full of instances of great
friendship, which almost assumed the place of a religion itself.
It is not easy to explain why its part in Christian ethics is so small
in comparison. The change is due to an enlarging of the thought and
life of man. Modern ideals are wider and more impersonal, just as the
modern conception of the state is wider. The Christian ideal of love
even for enemies has swallowed up the narrower ideal of philosophic
friendship. Then possibly also the instinct finds satisfaction
elsewhere in the modern man. For example, marriage, in more cases now
than ever before, supplies the need of friendship. Men and women are
nearer in intellectual pursuits and in common tastes than they have
ever been, and can be in a truer sense companions. And the deepest
explanation of all is that the heart of man receives a religious
satisfaction impossible before. Spiritual communion makes a man less
dependent on human intercourse. When the heaven is as brass and makes
no sign, men are thrown back on themselves to eke out their small
stores of love.
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