At the same time friendship is not an obsolete sentiment. It is as
true now as in Aristotle's time that no one would care to live without
friends, though he had all other good things. It is still necessary to
our life in its largest sense. The danger of sneering at friendship is
that it may be discarded or neglected, not in the interests of a more
spiritual affection, but to minister to a debased cynical
self-indulgence. There is possible to-day, as ever, a generous
friendship which forgets self. The history of the heart-life of man
proves this. What records we have of such in the literature of every
country! Peradventure for a good man men have even dared to die.
Mankind has been glorified by countless silent heroisms, by unselfish
service, and sacrificing love. Christ, who always took the highest
ground in His estimate of men and never once put man's capacity for the
noble on a low level, made the high-water mark of human friendship the
standard of His own great action, "Greater love hath no man than this,
that a man lay down his life for his friends." This high-water mark
has often been reached. Men have given themselves to each other, with
nothing to gain, with no self-interest to serve, and with no keeping
back part of the price. It is false to history to base life on
selfishness, to leave out of the list of human motives the highest of
all. The miracle of friendship has been too often enacted on this dull
earth of ours, to suffer us to doubt either its possibility or its
wondrous beauty.
The classic instance of David and Jonathan represents the typical
friendship. They met, and at the meeting knew each other to be nearer
than kindred. By subtle elective affinity they felt that they belonged
to each other. Out of all the chaos of the time and the disorder of
their lives, there arose for these two souls a new and beautiful world,
where there reigned peace, and love, and sweet content. It was the
miracle of the death of self. Jonathan forgot his pride, and David his
ambition. It was as the smile of God which changed the world to them.
One of them it saved from the temptations of a squalid court, and the
other from the sourness of an exile's life. Jonathan's princely soul
had no room for envy or jealousy. David's frank nature rose to meet
the magnanimity of his friend.
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