In the kingdom of love there was no disparity between the king's son
and the shepherd boy. Such a gift as each gave and received is not to
be bought or sold. It was the fruit of the innate nobility of both: it
softened and tempered a very trying time for both. Jonathan withstood
his father's anger to shield his friend: David was patient with Saul
for his son's sake. They agreed to be true to each other in their
difficult position. Close and tender must have been the bond, which
had such fruit in princely generosity and mutual loyalty of soul.
Fitting was the beautiful lament, when David's heart was bereaved at
tragic Gilboa, "I am distressed for thee, my brother Jonathan: very
pleasant hast thou been unto me: thy love to me was wonderful, passing
the love of women." Love is always wonderful, a new creation, fair and
fresh to every loving soul. It is the miracle of spring to the cold
dull earth.
When Montaigne wrote his essay on Friendship, he could do little but
tell the story of his friend. The essay continually reverts to this,
with joy that he had been privileged to have such a friend, with sorrow
at his loss. It is a chapter of his heart. There was an element of
necessity about it, as there is about all the great things of life. He
could not account for it. It came to him without effort or choice. It
was a miracle, but it happened. "If a man should importune me to give
a reason why I loved him, I can only answer, because it was he, because
it was I." It was as some secret appointment of heaven. They were
both grown men when they first met, and death separated them soon. "If
I should compare all my life with the four years I had the happiness to
enjoy the sweet society of this excellent man, it is nothing but smoke;
an obscure and tedious night from the day that I lost him. I have led
a sorrowful and languishing life ever since. I was so accustomed to be
always his second in all places and in all interests, that methinks I
am now no more than half a man, and have but half a being." We would
hardly expect such passion of love and regret from the easy-going,
genial, garrulous essayist.
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