Getting ready to be a mother : $b a little book of information and advice for the young woman who is looking forward to motherhood — John Shaqi
Getting ready to be a mother : $b a little book of information and advice for the young woman who is looking forward to motherhoodVan Blarcom, Carolyn Conant
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Getting ready to be a mother : $b a little book of information and advice for the young woman who is looking forward to motherhood
Van Blarcom, Carolyn Conant
Infants -- Care; Obstetrics; Pregnancy
Quite evidently, then, it means a great deal to the expectant mother to
have the doctor discover and treat these complications before they have
had time to become serious. But he can give early treatment only if he
knows about the symptoms of the trouble when they first appear. Some of
these symptoms may be detected by the expectant mother herself after
they have been explained to her, but some of them can be discovered only
by a doctor or a nurse. That is why it is important for the doctor to
see his patient at frequent intervals during pregnancy; about once a
month during the first half and every two weeks afterwards.
He sees her for much the same reasons that the housewife looks over the
contents of her darning basket—not once and for all time, but regularly,
once a week, over and over and over. She searches each time not for
holes alone, but for thin places, too; an occasional broken thread or
the beginning of a “run,” knowing how much trouble she will save
herself, later on, by promptly repairing the smallest break or evidence
of wear. She knows quite well that there are no more holes because she
looks for them, than there are if she does not, and that failure to look
for them will not keep the holes from being there nor from growing
larger. No more does the expectant mother develop a complication because
she is examined, nor does an existing condition cease to exist because
she is not examined; and yet some women still take just that illogical
attitude toward examinations and supervision during pregnancy.
One factor which keeps some expectant mothers from seeking medical care
is the well-meaning but dangerous counsel so freely offered by older
women who claim fitness to advise by virtue of having had several
children of their own. Their lack of success, as evidenced by
miscarriages, stillbirths, children dying in early infancy, as well as
injuries and disabilities of their own, is usually overlooked as they
press their superstitions and remedies upon the inexperienced and
bewildered younger woman. When disaster follows, as it so often does, it
is very likely to be ascribed to the will of God, and the mother’s
needless sacrifice does not even serve as a warning to others who are in
line for the same kind of advice.
Another obstacle to adequate prenatal care is sometimes found in the
husband who considers it entirely reasonable to secure expert advice
upon the subject of cattle-raising, let us say, or the care and running
of his automobile or about his investments, but who has a conviction
that it is normal and natural for women to have children without making
what he considers a fuss about it. He may cherish, too, a suspicion that
it is not altogether good for his wife to be thinking too much about her
condition. His mother never began bothering until the baby came.
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