Getting ready to be a mother : $b a little book of information and advice for the young woman who is looking forward to motherhoodVan Blarcom, Carolyn Conant
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Getting ready to be a mother : $b a little book of information and advice for the young woman who is looking forward to motherhood
Van Blarcom, Carolyn Conant
Infants -- Care; Obstetrics; Pregnancy
On the other hand, many husbands show the tenderest solicitude for their
wives throughout pregnancy and would be only too eager to have them
enjoy all the benefits of prenatal care, if they only knew and
understood about it. The expectant mother will be wise, therefore, if
she undertakes to convince her husband, if need be, that her occupation
of bearing and rearing children merits quite the same thoughtful
attention as his work, to which he devotes his best powers.
How easy and worth while this may be was demonstrated a couple of years
ago at a county fair which was attended by a very intelligent farmer and
his wife. The farmer was interested in hog-raising and both he and his
wife accepted without question the fact that success in this enterprise
could be achieved only through serious study and the most painstaking
care. But as to childbearing, if they thought of it at all, they looked
upon it as simply one of those natural functions which always had and
doubtless always would take care of itself.
When this couple reached the fair the farmer entered one of his fine
animals in a prize-winning contest and as there was a baby contest, too,
the wife entered their little son. In due time the judges inspected the
various contestants and it was found that point by point the farmer’s
hog measured up to all of the standards of perfection for his kind and
easily won the first prize. Not so with the baby; point by point he fell
below even a moderate average of what a baby should be and was outranked
by many of his more robust infant competitors.
As various admirers discussed hog-raising with the farmer, it became
quite evident that he had carefully studied the question and had applied
to his occupation the most approved methods of which he could learn. But
when the doctors and nurses at the baby contest talked with the
crestfallen mother about her baby, who had seemed right enough to her,
they found that she knew little or nothing of the business of being a
mother; that it had never occurred to her nor to her husband that she
might profit by care and instruction about herself and her baby both
before and after he was born. As might be expected, she had been unable
to nurse him and on the whole he proved to be a pretty poor specimen of
a baby, with a dismal outlook as to health.
Since the mother was then in an early stage of another pregnancy, the
doctor talked it all over with her and her husband. He convinced them
that such thoughtful and painstaking care as they had devoted
successfully to hog-raising were equally effective when applied to
baby-raising. As a result, the expectant mother, with her husband’s
whole-hearted approval, placed herself under the care and supervision
which she found were available through a prenatal clinic in her
vicinity.
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