Good Form and Christian EtiquetteHenry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Religion
Good Form and Christian Etiquette
Henry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Etiquette
In the social world, where Good Form is as binding as the Decalogue is
to the Christian, fathers and mothers have made it impossible for a
young woman to think of entertaining her young man friend shut away
alone with him. Strange to say, it has been the modest home, the
Christian parent, who has allowed Satan to set this trap for unwary feet
by leaving the young daughter, without one word of instruction, to
entertain some young man, perhaps a stranger, who passed as her lover,
shut away in the “parlor,” while everybody was given to understand that
no one must disturb the mysterious solemnities of “keeping company,”
even if they should continue into the small hours. And as a result of
this disregard of simple good form, which is as a fence against
recognized danger, untold sin and sorrow have resulted.
V.
The most worldly society decided long ago that it is very “bad form” for
boys and girls of school age to think of _lovers_, of engagements, or of
marriage. Not until the day of childish things is entirely passed, not
until a young man has some settled purpose in life, some business or
profession which insures an income, does “Good Society,” as it is
called, smile upon any “serious intentions” between young people, and
every effort is made to hold the children of the social world to this
regulation.
All this is because of the fact which can not be repudiated that
premature thinking along these channels is unhealthy, and disqualifies
the youth for any real earnest preparation for practical life.
The world theoretically considers these preparatory years so important,
and education so vital, that with every possible device it seeks to keep
the children unconscious of sex, and of the burdens which this
consciousness always brings, until they have attained something like
maturity.
Of course the world fails, because it is trying to do by sheer force of
human will, and by human methods from outside influence, that which can
only be accomplished by the growing from within of a divinely planted
principle. But that which the world is struggling after, that about
which it has made so many laws, has written and talked so much, and in
which it is so often foiled, Christian parents ought to find practical
and easy, because of the power of the Spirit which always accompanies
every truth.
It is a fact, however, that many worldly homes have succeeded at this
point, because they have faithfully taught the principle, even if
without prayer or faith; while many Christian homes have failed, with
all their praying and so-called faith, because they have ignored the
principle that marriage is for men and women, not for children; and that
any association which takes cognizance of sex must be for marriage only;
that if it is for any other object, it is coquetry, flirting, and
consequently immoral.
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