Good Form and Christian EtiquetteHenry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Religion
Good Form and Christian Etiquette
Henry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Etiquette
“I am going to ask you something right out plain, because I think you
will not laugh. I’ve never dared ask anybody yet, because everybody
always laughs in such a mean way if you try to find out anything about
such things; and I’d like to know how girls are going to know just what
to do. Now it’s just this way: I am going with Charley, and he is a nice
boy; he wants to do what is right, I know he does, but all the boys have
such queer ideas about their ‘rights.’ When he takes me home from church
or any place—and I’ve just got so I dread to have him; and sometimes I
think I won’t go with another boy as long as I live, because, you see,
when I go to say ‘Good night,’ he—he thinks I am so queer because I
won’t let him kiss me. But I won’t; I never let anybody but my own
folks. I don’t like it. I don’t think it’s nice to do that way unless
it’s somebody you’re sure of, and love very much. He says I’m queer; and
he gets provoked, and says it’s his right, if he goes with me. Now I
want to know—is it?”
“No; it is not,” I said, positively, and perhaps with a little flavor of
indignation. “And no properly instructed young man would make such a
claim. He is not to blame, of course,” I added more mildly, “for he is
young, too; but your instincts are all right; they are true; they are of
God who made the kiss, and gave it its own place in common human
language. It belongs to the home, and to the purest Christian fellowship
between man and man, woman and woman; _to society, never_.”
“Oh, I am so glad I asked you!” she said; “for I was sure my feeling
about it was right. But you know one doesn’t like to offend one’s
friend, and one doesn’t like to be called queer. But what does make boys
act so,—good boys, too, for Charley _is_ a good boy?”
I can not bring into the compass of these pages all that followed in our
talk, but I would like to give the points of truth to the young mothers
for whom I write.
The answer to my young questioner is found in the fact that boys, as
well as girls, have been left in ignorance of the principle, as it is in
God, of which the kiss is one form of expression, and have been left to
catch up its perversion as Satan has undertaken to work it into custom
and habit, in the world. Anything which Satan can not wholly spoil, he
will counterfeit; or, better yet for his purpose, make so common, if
possible, that it shall become worthless, as was the case with silver in
the days of Solomon, when it became as the stones of the street, and
“was nothing accounted of.”
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