Good Form and Christian EtiquetteHenry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Religion
Good Form and Christian Etiquette
Henry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Etiquette
“Under what circumstances is it proper for young men and women to
correspond with each other? Where not allowable, give reasons.”
When a thorough acquaintance between a young man and woman has developed
into that association which points to marriage, and when they must
necessarily be separated, correspondence is right. Such correspondence
should not, however, be considered too sacred to share with father and
mother. Anything that can not be shared with a good parent is dangerous.
If there is good reason for confidence between the young people who are
drawn toward each other, and yet who have had no good opportunity to
become thoroughly acquainted, a correspondence for the purpose of
acquaintance is admissible, although not wholly safe. To correspond with
more than one at a time has every appearance of evil, and is too often
just as evil as it can appear to be. Correspondence, excepting as it
leads up to marriage, should be for business only, as brief and formal
as possible, and should stop short when its purpose has been served. A
_religious_ correspondence between young men and women is one of Satan’s
most fruitful and profane devices.
“Should young ladies at school be permitted to receive calls from
young men? If so, under what circumstances?”
There should be connected with the young women’s home of every school a
parlor, open and public to all at all times. In such an apartment young
ladies in school should be able to receive calls, under proper
chaperonage and advice from those who have them in charge. Promiscuous
calling would be bad form, and dangerous to reputation.
“Is it best for young men and young women to do missionary work for
each other?”
The only way in which they can do missionary work for each other is in
each one making of him and herself the very best representative of
everything that is best and truest in good manners, according to the
divine model, and then leave the detail work for young men to men, and
for young women to women. Any man who must be led to Christ by some
woman, instead of some good, brotherly man, can never be saved. Any
woman who can not be helped by some sister woman, or mother in Israel,
can never be helped.
“Is it proper for a company of young people to go out on a camping
expedition for several days, even with a chaperon?”
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