Good Form and Christian EtiquetteHenry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Religion
Good Form and Christian Etiquette
Henry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Etiquette
“When it is known that a young man or young woman in school is impure
in thought, language, and habit, what is the duty of those in
authority in the matter?”
It is impossible for any one to know the thoughts of any other being, so
as to judge of their intrinsic character. The language and habits, when
judged from your standpoint, may be impure, but they may be really only
the result of wrong methods and circumstances over which the child has
no control, and for which he is not at all responsible. In manner and
habit he may be vile, and yet be no more responsible as far as thought
and motive is concerned than he would be for having the measles. He has
simply been exposed, caught it, and needs to be cured. But whatever the
thought and inner life may be, if his language and habits in the school
association are on the impure level, the pupil should certainly be kept
in quarantine at home, unless the school is like a hospital prepared to
take the case, and give the treatment that will lead to mental and moral
health.
“In what respect does the relation of those in charge of a school home
differ from that of the parents?”
In responsibility, during the school term, there is no difference. In
point of privilege the parent has greatly the advantage, as he alone is
capable of understanding the secrets which may be locked away, in the
breast of the child, from any possible discovery by the teacher. The
responsibility of parents, however, never ends, while that of the
teacher is limited to the hours in the school, and the school term. The
parents’ responsibility covers the whole life, and can never be
transferred.
“Is it good form for students in their work to eat bits of food from
the dishes they are handling?”
It is not only bad form, but a very disgusting practise for any one to
pick up things lying about on plates, table, in cupboards, or on fruit
stands, public or private, and put them into the mouth. The only
suitable place for eating is at the table, the picnic basket, or the
traveling lunch box, and that at the meal-time. The habit of nibbling is
also productive of many very troublesome forms of disease. Good form
requires that one should be as neat and tidy in the necessary handling
and preparing of food as in presiding at or enjoying a banquet.
“Is it good form for a gentleman to put on a lady’s skates?”
Any woman who is able to skate is able to fasten her own skates, and
should feel a womanly contempt for that childish form of incapacity that
would make her willing to receive that kind of attention from any man.
The corseted woman, trussed like a fowl, can not get down to her feet so
as to put on a pair of skates; but neither can she skate enough to make
it worth while to take note of her efforts. Of course _she_ must have a
man to perform this puerile service for her.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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