Good Form and Christian EtiquetteHenry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Religion
Good Form and Christian Etiquette
Henry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Etiquette
When a young man desires to cultivate the acquaintance of a young woman,
good form requires that before he utters a word, he shall frankly inform
her parents of his wishes, and ask their consent. _And this is right_;
and even if their decision is against him, a young man who is worthy of
a wife will have that regard for the rights of the parent which will
make him careful how he ruthlessly breaks into the family circle. He
will give himself time and opportunity to win the parents, before he
disturbs the mind of the daughter. The observance of good form in such
matters will bring a blessing, and save unspeakable trouble, even if it
should require what seems to the heart of a youth a great deal of
unreasonable delay.
“After the introduction should the mutual friend leave, or remain and
lead out in conversation?”
After the introduction the newly made acquaintances may or may not be
left to their own devices in following up the introduction. This
introduction does not under any circumstances bind the young woman to
any future recognition of the person who has been introduced to her. She
may ruthlessly ignore him the next time she meets him without any
violation of good form, it being supposed that she has sufficient reason
for doing so, and he will have no occasion to complain. He must accept
the fact that he has had all that he can receive of pleasure or profit
from this acquaintance, and be satisfied with it, unless he can by some
means so bring himself in some manly way to the notice of this young
woman that she shall indicate her wish to continue the acquaintance.
“What is good form in dress for an evening reception for both men and
women? Should gloves be worn?”
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