Good Form and Christian EtiquetteHenry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Religion
Good Form and Christian Etiquette
Henry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Etiquette
It is bad form for two, three, or more persons to walk in an irregular
huddle on the street, as children sometimes do, going backward facing
the rear of the procession in order that conversation may be carried on.
Even young children should be taught that the running, leaping, jumping,
loud talking and laughter, which would be all right in the back yard, on
some playground, or in the open country, is never to be indulged on the
public street; that the moment the street is reached the deportment
should become quiet, and have thoughtful reference to the comfort of the
public.
They should understand the obvious reasons for this: A running child is
practically a blind and deaf one; he must have plenty of room, or he
will be almost sure to collide with something or somebody; in town will
be in danger of teams or cars. The rule for the street should be:
Steady, quiet, careful, eyes to the front, no loud talking or laughing,
no play, no swapping of knives, no reading, no chewing or eating, no
clearing the throat or spitting if it can possibly be avoided. If this
last is impossible, let it be done in the most unobtrusive manner,
behind a kerchief; in short, let nothing be done which would inevitably
draw the attention of passers-by, causing special notice and comment.
The craze for notoriety manifests itself in a thousand repulsive forms
of street behavior, through which the grossest temptations attack the
untaught and careless; and those parents who would protect their
children from many nameless dangers must teach them good form as applied
to street life.
Nowhere does good breeding reveal itself more quickly than in the quiet,
unobtrusive “I-am-minding-my-own-business” air of the girl or boy, who,
with an armful of books held closely, looking neither to the right nor
to the left, clips to and from school; or if walking and talking
together by twos, it is with steady carriage and voices so modulated
that no passer-by will overhear a word, nor think of being jostled.
Children should be taught by both word and example that when they are
about to meet any person on the street they should fall back into single
file at the right, while still far enough distant as to obviate all
danger of interference. Who has not found himself caught on the street
in a mob of schoolgirls or boys, often both together, who needlessly
monopolize the walk, as with loud talking, wrangling, jesting, jaws
working at both words and gum, they publish as upon the housetop the
utter lack of good form in the homes from which they have come? The
first blame for this disgusting spectacle always falls upon the
children; but in truth it all belongs to the homes out of which they
have tumbled pell-mell without that instruction and those fixed habits
which would have insured decorum and decency.
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