Good Form and Christian EtiquetteHenry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Religion
Good Form and Christian Etiquette
Henry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Etiquette
Every child should be taught to give courteous recognition to
acquaintances. The boys should lift the cap to each other as well as to
their elders, always to father and mother, if they chance to meet them
on the street; and the girls by some modest feminine salute of bow or
word. But some one may object that it seems “far-fetched” to train boys
to this formal mannerism. To which I reply in the old adage that the
“boy is father of the man.” The man in every relation in life will
follow the lead of boyish habits unless indeed in the interests of some
great conviction or self-interest he makes all things new. This can be
done, but even then the traces of early habits will often remain to
bring shame and confusion at some critical point when pleasure or profit
are at stake.
III.
The social life of boys and girls should be recognized and provided for
as a department of the school in which they shall become educated in
those things which make for social righteousness and purity later on. As
boys treat each other, they will, as a rule, treat each other as men. As
boys and girls behave toward each other, so will they as a rule behave
as men and women. Courtesy is necessary to the highest degree of success
in any enterprise. The boy who is habitually courteous toward other boys
will be successful in winning his way as a man among men with any
important message with which he may be commissioned; and if he is so
instructed that he is gentle, considerate, and true to his mother,
sisters, and girl associates, he will be a safe friend as a man, a
representative of Christ to his own wife and children, and help to make
that home which must stand as a witness for God in the last days.
The children in whose interests I am writing must be in a peculiar sense
messengers of light to the world. They will be on the field of action in
the very last scenes of the earth’s history, when souls must be
_snatched_ by a power of which we have little comprehension—the power to
_win quickly_; the power to reveal the truth as in a flash of light, so
that it will be recognized at sight by the bewildered, desperate soul
that has awakened at the last moment to its peril and privilege, and
with scant space for repentance and cleansing, cries out for help; and
the Holy Spirit must find somewhere those whom he can train and use for
the service which in those days must be done to reach _every_ creature,
high as well as low, with the gospel.
The truth is worthy of the best possible investment. Its messengers
should be free from every offensive habit, custom, and manner—thoroughly
equipped in all that is most graceful, most scholarly, as genuine
Christian scholarship goes; most refined, most chaste, and agreeable in
both public and private intercourse. They should be the most suitably,
and that means the most simply and tastefully, dressed.
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