Good Form and Christian EtiquetteHenry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Religion
Good Form and Christian Etiquette
Henry, S. M. I. (Sarepta Myrenda Irish)
Etiquette
The theory of the world considers as “good form” that each individual
should dress according to the _class_ which he represents; and the
Christian who conscientiously and consistently dresses as his name
“Christian” would indicate that he should dress, will be respected by
even the frivolous “butterfly of fashion,” and will stand a good chance
of a hearing by that same “butterfly,” even in the most solemn message,
provided it is accompanied with the simple, easy courtesy of good
breeding, such as can not be suddenly assumed “for effect,” but which is
the result of life-long training. There are honest souls among so-called
“social butterflies,” and some workers must be trained to go out into
the _highways_ where they flit away their hopeless lives, as well as
into the byways and hedges, where social wrecks are huddled in darkness
and desolation.
The men and women who must do this work are now boys and girls in our
homes or schools, and very much which shall determine the scope of their
influence depends upon what the Spirit of God shall find available in
them for use. A truly well-trained, courteous man or woman can be used
_anywhere_, among _any_ people; while the uncouth and untrained must be
kept in a limited sphere. The truly cultured man or woman whose every
gift and grace has been sanctified and consecrated, will be more sure to
know what to do in the homes of the wretched and the haunts of vice for
the alleviation of distress and the saving of a soul than those who have
never thought it worth while to cultivate winsome qualities.
God has so arranged human life and relations that even the most
aristocratic and exclusive must take note of, and plan for doing, the
same every-day things that are alike common to all; and the only
question of deportment which can ever come between the uncouth and the
refined, concerns the methods of doing these same most common things.
The mother in the humblest home, with the most meager opportunities, if
she has a high enough appreciation of the mission to which her child is
called as a representative of the precious “faith of Jesus,” can, in
him, place at the disposal of the Holy Spirit such graces of gentleness,
such a beauty of holiness, such winsome kindliness, such tact and
address, as shall open the way for anything which he has to bring. But
to do this she must begin with the child in his relation to the other
children of his own age with whom he stands on an equal footing. To
treat with deference and politeness only those who because of age or
position are recognized as his superiors, would train the child to
sychophancy.
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