Graham's Magazine, Vol. XVIII, No. 5, May 1841Various
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Graham's Magazine, Vol. XVIII, No. 5, May 1841
Various
Literature -- Periodicals; Literature, Modern -- 19th century -- Periodicals
“Well, you’re really getting quite _low_ in your notions, Harry—where,
in the world, did you pick up such vulgar opinions? _You_, a gentleman
and a lawyer, to marry such a girl! She’s pretty enough I grant—amiable
no doubt—can sing and draw passably—and makes, I hear, a batch of
bread, or does dirty house-work as well as a common kitchen girl. But
perhaps that is what you want her for?”
“Your sneer aside, yes! It is because Lucy Warden _is_ a good
house-keeper, that I intend to marry her. Not that I would have a bride
_only_ because she could, as you say, make a batch of bread. Education,
amiability, a refined mind, and lady-like manners are equally necessary.
But a knowledge, and a practical one too, of housekeeping is no slight
requisite in a good wife. I know such knowledge is scarce among our city
ladies, but that is the very reason why I prize it so highly. Believe
me, refinement is not incompatible with this knowledge.”
“Pshaw, Harry; but granting your position, what is the _use_ of such
knowledge?”
“It is of daily use. Servants will always impose on a mistress who knows
nothing of her duties as the domestic head of the house. You are an
importer; but how long, think you, would you prosper if you left every
thing to the care of clerks, who would naturally take advantage of your
carelessness to fleece you? A mistress of a house ought to oversee her
establishment in person. This she cannot do unless—to use a mercantile
phrase—_she understands her business_. If she does not do this, nothing
will be well done. The whole evil, believe me, arises from the desire of
our women to ape the extravagance of the English female nobility, whose
immense wealth allows them to employ substitutes to oversee their
domestic establishments. But even had we incomes of hundreds of
thousands of dollars we could not carry out the plan, owing to the total
absence of good servants of this character in our country; and in this
opinion I am borne out by Combe, Hamilton, two of the most observant and
just of English travellers.”
“Well, Harry, you were born for a barrister, or you could not run on so
glibly. But it’s a shame that a gentleman who might command the choice
of the market, and marry the richest heiress in Walnut street, should
throw himself away upon a girl without a sixpence. Now there’s Charlotte
Thornbury and her sister who are co-heiresses,—why can’t you take the
one and I the other?”
“Merely because I love another. You smile; but despite the sneer I am a
believer in love. Of Charlotte I have nothing to say, except that she is
beautiful. You know how often we have discussed the matter. I only hope
she will make you a good wife.”
“_Allons!_ the ladies are awaiting us. You and I will never, on this
question, agree.”
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