Human nature and the social orderCooley, Charles Horton
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Human nature and the social order
Cooley, Charles Horton
Individualism; Social psychology; Sociology
Physical withdrawal from the presence of men has always been much in
favor with those in search of a calmer, surer life. The passions to be
regulated are sympathetic in origin, awakened by imagination of the
minds of other persons with whom we come in contact. As Contarini
Fleming remarks in Disraeli’s novel, “So soon as I was among men I
desired to influence them.” To retire to the monastery, or the woods, or
the sea, is to escape from the sharp suggestions that spur on ambition;
and even to change from the associates and competitors of our active
life into the company of strangers, or at least of those whose aims and
ambitions are different from ours, has much the same effect. To get away
from one’s working environment is, in a sense, to get away from one’s
self; and this is often the chief advantage of travel and change. I can
hardly agree with those who imagine that a special instinct of
withdrawal is necessary to explain the prominence of retirement in the
ordinances of religion. People wish to retire from the world because
they are weary, harassed, driven by it, so that they feel that they
cannot recover their equanimity without getting away from it. To the
impressible mind life is a theatre of alarms and contentions, even when
a phlegmatic person can see no cause for agitation—and to such a mind
peace often seems the one thing fair and desirable, so that the cloister
or the forest, or the vessel on the lonesome sea, is the most grateful
object of imagination. The imaginative self, which is, for most
purposes, the real self, may be more battered, wounded and strained by a
striving, ambitious life than the material body could be in a more
visible battle, and its wounds are usually more lasting and draw more
deeply upon the vitality. Mortification, resentment, jealousy, the fear
of disgrace and failure, sometimes even hope and elation, are exhausting
passions; and it is after a severe experience of them that retirement
seems most healing and desirable.
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