Human nature and the social orderCooley, Charles Horton
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Human nature and the social order
Cooley, Charles Horton
Individualism; Social psychology; Sociology
Another phase of the transformation of hostility by reason and
imagination, is that it tends to become more discriminating or selective
as regards its relation to the idea of the person against whom it is
directed. In a sense the higher hostility is less personal than the
lower; that is, in the sense that it is no longer aimed blindly at
persons as wholes, but distinguishes in some measure between phases or
tendencies of them that are obnoxious and others that are not. It is not
the mere thought of X’s countenance, or other symbol, that arouses
resentment, but the thought of him as exhibiting insincerity, or
arrogance, or whatever else it may be that we do not like; while we may
preserve a liking for him as exhibiting other traits. Generally
speaking, all persons have much in them which, if imagined, must appear
amiable; so that if we feel only animosity toward a man it must be
because we have apprehended him only in a partial aspect. An
undisciplined anger, like any other undisciplined emotion, always tends
to produce these partial and indiscriminate notions, because it
overwhelms symmetrical thought and permits us to see only that which
agrees with itself. But a more chastened sentiment allows a juster view,
so that it becomes conceivable that we should love our enemies as well
as antagonize the faults of our friends. A just parent or teacher will
resent the insubordinate behavior of a child or pupil without letting go
of affection, and the same principle holds good as regards criminals,
and all proper objects of hostility. The attitude of society toward its
delinquent members should be stern, yet sympathetic, like that of a
father toward a disobedient child.
It is the tendency of modern life, by educating the imagination and
rendering all sorts of people conceivable, to discredit the sweeping
conclusions of impulsive thought—as, for instance, that all who commit
violence or theft are hateful ill-doers, and nothing more—and to make us
feel the fundamental likeness of human nature wherever found. Resentment
against ill-doing should by no means disappear; but while continuing to
suppress wrong by whatever means proves most efficacious, we shall
perhaps see more and more clearly that the people who are guilty of it
are very much like ourselves, and are acting from motives to which we
also are subject.
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