Human nature and the social orderCooley, Charles Horton
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Human nature and the social order
Cooley, Charles Horton
Individualism; Social psychology; Sociology
Probably the phrase “ideal person” suggests something more unified and
consistent than is actually present in the minds of most people when
they conceive the desirable or good in personal character. Is it not
rather ideal traits or sentiments, fragments of personal experience,
phases of past intercourse returning in the imagination with a new
emphasis in the presence of new situations? We have at times divined in
other people courage, generosity, patience and justice, and judged them
to be good. Now, when we find ourselves in a situation where these
traits are called for, we are likely to be reminded by that very fact of
our previous experience of them; and the memory of it brings these
sentiments more vividly to life and gives them more authority in
conscience. Thus a person hesitating whether to smuggle in dutiable
goods is likely to think in his perplexity of some one whom he has come
to regard as honorable in such matters, and of how that one would feel
and act under like conditions.
This building up of higher personal conceptions does not lend itself to
precise description. It is mostly subconscious; the mind is continually
at work ordering and bettering its past and present experiences, working
them up in accordance with its own instinctive need for consistency and
pleasantness; ever idealizing, but rarely producing clean-cut ideals. It
finds its materials both in immediate personal intercourse and through
books and other durable media of expression. “Books, monuments,
pictures, conversation, are portraits in which he finds the lineaments
he is forming.” “All that is said of the wise man ... describes to each
reader his own idea, describes his unattained but attainable self.”[101]
“A few anecdotes, a few traits of character, manners, face, a few
incidents, have an emphasis in your memory out of all proportion to
their apparent significance, if you measure them by the ordinary
standards. They relate to your gift. Let them have their weight, and do
not reject them and cast about for illustrations more usual in
literature. What your heart thinks great is great. The soul’s emphasis
is always right.”[102]
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