Human nature and the social orderCooley, Charles Horton
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Human nature and the social order
Cooley, Charles Horton
Individualism; Social psychology; Sociology
As already suggested, instinctive self-feeling is doubtless connected in
evolution with its important function in stimulating and unifying the
special activities of individuals. It appears to be associated chiefly
with ideas of the exercise of power, of being a cause, ideas that
emphasize the antithesis between the mind and the rest of the world. The
first definite thoughts that a child associates with self-feeling are
probably those of his earliest endeavors to control visible objects—his
limbs, his playthings, his bottle, and the like. Then he attempts to
control the actions of the persons about him, and so his circle of power
and of self-feeling widens without interruption to the most complex
objects of mature ambition. Although he does not say “I” or “my” during
the first year or two, yet he expresses so clearly by his actions the
feeling that adults associate with these words that we cannot deny him a
self even in the first weeks.
The correlation of self-feeling with purposeful activity is easily seen
by observing the course of any productive enterprise. If a boy sets
about making a boat, and has any success, his interest in the matter
waxes, he gloats over it, the keel and stern are dear to his heart, and
its ribs are more to him than those of his own frame. He is eager to
call in his friends and acquaintances, saying to them, “See what I am
doing! Is it not remarkable?”, feeling elated when it is praised, and
resentful or humiliated when fault is found with it. But so soon as he
finishes it and turns to something else, his self-feeling begins to fade
away from it, and in a few weeks at most he will have become
comparatively indifferent. We all know that much the same course of
feeling accompanies the achievements of adults. It is impossible to
produce a picture, a poem, an essay, a difficult bit of masonry, or any
other work of art or craft, without having self-feeling regarding it,
amounting usually to considerable excitement and desire for some sort of
appreciation; but this rapidly diminishes with the activity itself, and
often lapses into indifference after it ceases.
It may perhaps be objected that the sense of self, instead of being
limited to times of activity and definite purpose, is often most
conspicuous when the mind is unoccupied or undecided, and that the idle
and ineffectual are commonly the most sensitive in their self-esteem.
This, however, may be regarded as an instance of the principle that all
instincts are likely to assume troublesome forms when denied wholesome
expression. The need to exert power, when thwarted in the open fields of
life, is the more likely to assert itself in trifles.
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