Sexism; Women -- Social and moral questions; Women -- Social conditions
How successful such a concealment may be is well displayed by the
general acceptance of the notion that women are reluctant to enter into
marriage—that they have to be persuaded to it by eloquence and
pertinacity, and even by a sort of intimidation. The truth is that, in
a world almost divested of intelligible idealism, and hence dominated
by a senseless worship of the practical, marriage offers the best
career that the average woman can reasonably aspire to, and, in the
case of very many women, the only one that actually offers a
livelihood. What is esteemed and valuable, in our materialistic and
unintelligent society, is precisely that petty practical efficiency at
which men are expert, and which serves them in place of free
intelligence. A woman, save she show a masculine strain that verges
upon the pathological, cannot hope to challenge men in general in this
department, but it is always open to her to exchange her sexual charm
for a lion’s share in the earnings of one man, and this is what she
almost invariably tries to do. That is to say, she tries to get a
husband, for getting a husband means, in a sense, enslaving an expert,
and so covering up her own lack of expertness, and escaping its
consequences. Thereafter she has at least one stout line of defence
against a struggle for existence in which the prospect of survival is
chiefly based, not upon the talents that are typically hers, but upon
those that she typically lacks. Before the average woman succumbs in
this struggle, some man or other must succumb first. Thus her craft
converts her handicap into an advantage.
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