Sexism; Women -- Social and moral questions; Women -- Social conditions
resist sentimentality.
In America the dot is almost unknown, partly because money-getting is
easier to men than in Europe and is regarded as less degrading, and
partly because American men are more naive than Frenchmen and are thus
readily intrigued without actual bribery. But the best of them
nevertheless lean to celibacy, and plans for overcoming their habit are
frequently proposed and discussed. One such plan involves a heavy tax
on bachelors. The defect in it lies in the fact that the average
bachelor, for obvious reasons, is relatively well to do, and would pay
the tax rather than marry. Moreover, the payment of it would help to
salve his conscience, which is now often made restive, I believe, by a
maudlin feeling that he is shirking his duty to the race, and so he
would be confirmed and supported in his determination to avoid the
altar. Still further, he would escape the social odium which now
attaches to his celibacy, for whatever a man pays for is regarded as
his right. As things stand, that odium is of definite potency, and
undoubtedly has its influence upon a certain number of men in the lower
ranks of bachelors. They stand, so to speak, in the twilight zone of
bachelorhood, with one leg furtively over the altar rail; it needs only
an extra pull to bring them to the sacrifice. But if they could
compound for their immunity by a cash indemnity it is highly probable
that they would take on new resolution, and in the end they would
convert what remained of their present disrepute into a source of
egoistic satisfaction, as is done, indeed, by a great many bachelors
even today. These last immoralists are privy to the elements which
enter into that disrepute: the ire of women whose devices they have
resisted and the envy of men who have succumbed.
22. Compulsory Marriage
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