Incwadi Yami; or, twenty years' personal experience in South AfricaMatthews, J. W. (Josiah Wright)
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Incwadi Yami; or, twenty years' personal experience in South Africa
Matthews, J. W. (Josiah Wright)
Diamond mines and mining -- South Africa; South Africa -- Description and travel
While I was district surgeon the customs of the natives interested me
very much, and I will mention those which most attracted my notice.
_Ukulobola_, or the practice of giving cattle to the father or guardian
of a girl or widow, on her marriage, by her husband, is one of the
oldest laws among the natives of South Africa. Looking at the practice
from an Englishman’s point of view, it is tantamount to the purchase and
sale of women, but it does not bear the same construction in the native
mind, for it is by them considered as compensation for the loss of a
daughter’s services at an age when, by her usefulness and affection, she
might give some return for the care and attention which she received in
childhood. Moreover, the girl glories in it as a proof of her worth,
while the man himself would not value a wife who cost nothing. The
intended son-in-law, when engaged to a girl, generally begins to pay the
necessary cattle in instalments, and as he has to run the risk of their
dying, their sickness and death very often delay the marriage. If an
engagement is broken off the suitor gets back all the cattle he may have
paid on account; again, if a wife die without issue the husband can
claim the cattle he has paid, or the father must give him another girl
instead; but if the husband die while the wife is still young, a younger
brother takes the wife, or she returns home, and the husband’s estate
receives back the cattle, supposing the wife has borne no children.
Their law of inheritance is a study in itself. A Natal Kafir looks upon
any money or goods he may acquire as valuable only as a means of
acquiring cattle, by possession of which he may obtain wives. Land they
do not claim individually, and they set value on it only as the common
right of their tribe. The head man of a _kraal_ is a patriarch indeed,
and is responsible for the good behavior of the members of it. If he has
a son who is married, that son cannot, during his father’s lifetime, say
which of his wives shall be his _Ikohlo_ (right-hand wife), or which his
_Iquadi_ (left-hand wife), but his father, after due consideration,
chooses them for him, and when once appointed neither their position nor
that of their children can be altered, however badly they may behave.
The _Inkosikazi_ is the wife of the greatest rank, her hut is placed in
the centre opposite the gateway of the kraal, and her eldest son is
heir. The hut of the right-hand wife is placed to the right side, that
of the left-hand wife to the left of that of the “inkosikazi,” and of
course they occupy the next position to that of the chief wife. If male
issue fail the chief wife, the eldest son of the “ikohlo,” or right-hand
wife, can only succeed to the chieftainship in event of male issue
failing all the wives of the left-hand side. The head of the kraal is
entitled to receive all the earnings of his sons or daughters, but he is
expected to start his sons in life, or in other words, to find their
marriage portion.
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