Indian Tribes of the Upper Missouri: Edited with Notes and Biographical SketchDenig, Edwin Thompson
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Indian Tribes of the Upper Missouri: Edited with Notes and Biographical Sketch
Denig, Edwin Thompson
Assiniboine Indians; Indians of North America -- Missouri River Valley
The way courtships are conducted is that the suitor in the first place
always endeavors to induce the girl to run away with him. He has two
objects in this. First, it shows her great regard for him and flatters
his vanity that she leaves her parents and departs to another band,
with and under his protection. Next, having the girl in his possession
obviates the possibility of a refusal, and also he can afterwards pay
his own price for her instead of that demanded by her relatives. To
accomplish this they paint, dress, and adorn themselves extravagantly,
and are always on the watch to catch the woman outside or away from the
view of her parents. He dogs her steps so closely that opportunities
must present themselves when he can recite to her his tale of love.
Of course this consists of the usual promises and flatteries used by
all men for like purposes which often prove successful. Should he
obtain her consent to depart with him they will agree upon a place of
rendezvous and signal, which he repeats to her in the night with his
flute from outside the lodge at the appointed time to meet him, and
they leave, traveling night and day until they arrive at another camp.
Here they stay with some distant relative or friend three or four weeks
and return as man and wife, when he looks around for some means to
satisfy the parents. Or it sometimes happens that having become tired
of her in the meantime he throws her on their hands and proceeds to
seduce another. The young Indians are great profligates and boast of
their success in this way.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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