Introductory lectures on psycho-analysis : $b a course of twenty-eight lectures delivered at the University of ViennaFreud, Sigmund
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Introductory lectures on psycho-analysis : $b a course of twenty-eight lectures delivered at the University of Vienna
Freud, Sigmund
Psychoanalysis
A young officer, home on short leave of absence, asked me to treat his
mother-in-law, who was living in the happiest surroundings and yet was
embittering her own and her family’s lives by a nonsensical idea. I
found her a well-preserved lady, fifty-three years of age, of a
friendly, simple disposition, who gave without hesitation the following
account of herself. She is most happily married, and lives in the
country with her husband who manages a large factory. She cannot say
enough of her husband’s kindness and consideration; theirs had been a
love-marriage thirty years ago, since when they had never had a cloud, a
quarrel, or a moment’s jealousy. Her two children have both married
well, but her husband’s sense of duty keeps him still at work. A year
before, an incredible and, to her, incomprehensible thing happened. She
received an anonymous letter telling her that her excellent husband was
carrying on an intrigue with a young girl, and believed it on the
spot—since then her happiness has been destroyed. The details were more
or less as follows: she had a housemaid with whom she discussed
confidential matters, perhaps rather too freely. This young woman
cherished a positively venomous hatred for another girl who had
succeeded better in life than herself, although of no better origin.
Instead of going into service, the other young woman had had a
commercial training, been taken into the factory and, owing to vacancies
caused by the absence of staff on service in the field, had been
promoted to a good position. She lived in the factory, knew all the
gentlemen, and was even addressed as “Miss.” The other one who had been
left behind in life was only too ready to accuse her former schoolmate
of all possible evil. One day our patient and her housemaid were
discussing an elderly gentleman who had visited the house and of whom it
was said that he did not live with his wife but kept a mistress. Why,
she did not know, but she suddenly said: “I cannot imagine anything more
awful than to hear that my husband had a mistress.” The next day she
received by post an anonymous letter in disguised handwriting which
informed her of the very thing she had just imagined. She
concluded—probably correctly—that the letter was the handiwork of her
malicious housemaid, for the woman who was named as the mistress of her
husband was the very girl who was the object of this housemaid’s hatred.
Although she at once saw through the plot and had seen enough of such
cowardly accusations in her own surroundings to place little credence in
them, our patient was nevertheless prostrated by this letter. She became
terribly excited and at once sent for her husband to overwhelm him with
reproaches. The husband laughingly denied the accusation and did the
best thing he could. He sent for the family physician (who also attended
the factory), and he did his best to calm the unhappy lady. The next
thing they did was also most reasonable. The housemaid was dismissed,
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