[Sidenote: _Speech of Pausanias_]
“In Ionia and other places, and generally in countries which
are subject to the barbarians, the custom is held to be
dishonorable; loves of youths share the evil repute of philosophy
and gymnastics, because they are inimical to tyranny; for the
interests of rulers require that their subjects should be poor in
spirit, and that there should be no strong bond of friendship or
society among them, which love above all other motives is likely
to inspire, as our Athenian tyrants learned by experience.”
_Ibid._
[Sidenote: _Speech of Aristophanes_]
Aristophanes goes more deeply into the nature of this love of which
they are speaking. He says it is a profound reality—a deep and intimate
union, abiding after death, and making of the lovers “one departed soul
instead of two.” But in order to explain his allusion to “the other half”
it must be premised that in the earlier part of his speech he has in a
serio-comic vein pretended that human beings were originally constructed
double, with four legs, four arms, etc.; but that as a punishment for
their sins Zeus divided them perpendicularly, “as folk cut eggs before
they salt them,” the males into two parts, the females into two, and
the hermaphrodites likewise into two—since when, these divided people
have ever pursued their lost halves, and “thrown their arms around and
embraced each other, seeking to grow together again.” And so, speaking of
those who were originally males, he says:
“And these when they grow up are our statesmen, and these only,
which is a great proof of the truth of what I am saying. And
when they reach manhood they are lovers of youth, and are not
naturally inclined to marry or beget children, which they do,
if at all, only in obedience to the law, but they are satisfied
if they may be allowed to live with one another unwedded; and
such a nature is prone to love and ready to return love, always
embracing that which is akin to him. And when one of them finds
his other half, whether he be a lover of youth or a lover of
another sort, the pair are lost in an amazement of love and
friendship and intimacy, and one will not be out of the other’s
sight, as I may say, even for a moment: they will pass their
whole lives together; yet they could not explain what they
desire of one another. For the intense yearning that each of
them has towards the other does not appear to be the desire of
lovers’ intercourse, but of something else which the soul of
either evidently desires and cannot tell, and of which she only
has a dark and doubtful presentiment. Suppose Hephæstus, with
his instruments, to come to the pair who are lying side by side
and say to them, ‘What do you people want of one another?’ they
would be unable to explain. And suppose further that when he
saw their perplexity he said: ‘Do you desire to be wholly one;
always day and night to be in one another’s company? for if this
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