At another time, in the Banquet of Xenophon, Socrates is again made to
speak at length on the subject of Love—though not in so inspired a strain
as in Plato:—
“Truly, to speak for one, I never remember the time when I
was not in love; I know too that Charmides has had a great
many lovers, and being much beloved has loved again. As for
Critobulus, he is still of an age to love, and to be beloved;
and Nicerates too, who loves so passionately his wife, at least
as report goes, is equally beloved by her.... And as for you,
Callias, you love, as well as the rest of us; for who is it that
is ignorant of your love for Autolycus? It is the town-talk;
and foreigners, as well as our citizens, are acquainted with
it. The reason for your loving him, I believe to be that you
are both born of illustrious families; and at the same time are
both possessed of personal qualities that render you yet more
illustrious. For me, I always admired the sweetness and evenness
of your temper; but much more when I consider that your passion
for Autolycus is placed on a person who has nothing luxurious or
affected in him; but in all things shows a vigour and temperance
worthy of a virtuous soul; which is a proof at the same time that
if he is infinitely beloved, he deserves to be so. I confess
indeed I am not firmly persuaded whether there be but one Venus
or two, the celestial and the vulgar; and it may be with this
goddess, as with Jupiter, who has many different names though
there is still but one Jupiter. But I know very well that both
the Venuses have quite different altars, temples and sacrifices.
The vulgar Venus is worshipped after a common negligent manner;
whereas the celestial one is adored in purity and sanctity of
life. The vulgar inspires mankind with the love of the body only,
but the celestial fires the mind with the love of the soul, with
friendship, and a generous thirst after noble actions.... Nor is
it hard to prove, Callias, that gods and heroes have always had
more passion and esteem for the charms of the soul, than those
of the body: at least this seems to have been the opinion of our
ancient authors. For we may observe in the fables of antiquity
that Jupiter, who loved several mortals on account of their
personal beauty only, never conferred upon them immortality.
Whereas it was otherwise with Hercules, Castor, Pollux, and
several others; for having admired and applauded the greatness
of their courage and the beauty of their minds, he enrolled them
in the number of the gods.... You are then infinitely obliged to
the gods, Callias, who have inspired you with love and friendship
for Autolycus, as they have inspired Critobulus with the same
for Amandra; for real and pure friendship knows no difference in
sexes.” _Banquet of Xenophon_ § viii. (_Bohn_).
[Sidenote: _Plutarch Philosophises_]
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