Is it I? A book for every man.Storer, Horatio Robinson
Science
Is it I? A book for every man.
Storer, Horatio Robinson
Sexual ethics
As a fair offset to these remarks, I shall give a brief extract from
a letter to Mr. Acton from a Cambridge graduate, whose experience
will be found not so very different from that of intellectual and
sedentary men this side the water. “Looking from the academic side
of the question, the celibacy of Fellows would seem very desirable
(for thus only can they retain their fellowships and the annual
stipend pertaining), but no one can deny that such a principle
involves the sacrifice of individual comfort. Is this fair to the
celibate? I think not. It has always seemed to me that a single
man is in an unnatural position; a being created by the Almighty
to increase and multiply a race made from the beginning male and
female, will, of course, have his natural instincts in accordance
with this design; and mortify or control them as he may, they
are still there, and cannot become extinct. The sufferings of an
abstinent life I believe to be _cruel_ to every man between five and
twenty and five and forty; and though athletic exercises, regular
diet, and so forth, supply some slight relief, still it is never
permanent; and in any event of reaction, the sufferer will find
himself the worse for his previous regularity. Of course a sedentary
life aggravates the symptoms, and I cannot believe that any man
of ordinary vigor, so living and so abstaining, will be free from
nocturnal annoyance. Still, this would be among the least of his
distresses; nay, in nine cases out of ten, I presume the safety
valve of nature is a most happy and beneficial relief; and though
I cannot fly in the face of medical authority, and deny that there
is a pernicious class of the disorder, still I firmly believe all
those cases immensely exaggerated by the sufferers, and capable of
an easy cure, to wit, matrimony, unless the patient, by degrading
practices, has reduced himself to a state of impotence. Meanwhile a
man should go into training for a conflict with his appetites just
as keenly as he does for the University Eight, the only difference
being that the training will be more beneficial and more protracted.
Besides diet and exercise, let him be constantly employed; in fact,
let him have so many metaphorical irons in the fire that he will
find it difficult to snatch ten minutes for private meditation; let
his sleep be very limited, and the temperature he moves in as nearly
cold as he can bear; let neither his eye nor his ear be voluntarily
open to anything that could possibly excite the passions; if he see
or hear accidentally what might have this tendency, let him at once
resort to his dumb-bells, or any other muscular precaution, till he
is quite fatigued; whenever any sensual image occurs involuntarily
to his mind, let him fly to the same resource, or else to the
intellectual company of friends, till he feels secure of no return
on the enemy’s part. Lastly, I would fain add, let the sufferer from
sexual causes make his affliction the subject of most earnest prayer,
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