Is it I? A book for every man.Storer, Horatio Robinson
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Is it I? A book for every man.
Storer, Horatio Robinson
Sexual ethics
at any and all times, to that Ear where no supplication is made in
vain. Thus armed, he _may_ keep his assailant at bay, though I fear
conquest is impossible, and the struggle a most severe one. Sound
old Jeremy Taylor, after discoursing on chastity in something like
the above strain, says, if I remember right, ‘These remedies are
for extraordinary cases, but the ordinary remedy is good and holy
marriage.”
As I have said, the time at which marriage may be entered upon must
vary in accordance with the circumstances of each case. Love is
proverbially blind, and I shall be told that regard ought to be had
to the actual and relative ages of the parties, their health, their
pecuniary circumstances and prospects, the advice and wishes of
friends. All this is very true, to a certain extent, but far more
depends upon the mental and spiritual strength of the husband; if he
is determined to conquer adverse circumstances, he can generally do
so, just in proportion as he curbs and keeps under control himself.
Let him look forward and determine to use and not abuse his marital
privileges, to respect his wife, and not make of her a mere plaything
that will early wear out, and a man will find the lions that seemed
to stand in his path the veriest illusion. The points, however, that
I have referred to are worthy a moment’s consideration.
As to age, there can be no doubt that, for some reasons, it would
be better for no man to marry before he has reached the age of
twenty-five, and for no woman until she is twenty; for till this
time neither party can be considered, physically, as really mature.
To apply this rule, however, rigidly to practice, would, in this
country, be very difficult. With us, such is the precocity of mental
development, that the young child is often in many things the old
man. Taken from the nursery almost before the first dentition has
occurred, placed in business or upon the classics almost at the time
of assuming the boy’s distinctive garments, many of our merchants and
manufacturers have achieved a fortune, and many of our professional
men a reputation, by the time they have hardly passed their majority.
Precocity of youth, spent under the stimulus of the American
atmosphere, climatic, intellectual, and moral, can but result in a
certain kind of precocity of manhood.
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