Is it I? A book for every man.Storer, Horatio Robinson
Science
Is it I? A book for every man.
Storer, Horatio Robinson
Sexual ethics
I do not like to advise marriage to parties in ill health; and yet,
as a medical measure, this is often advisable. We have seen that
a single life is for men, and on sanitary grounds, not the best.
There are many cases where it is as unadvisable for women. As a
class they need marriage, for a different reason than ourselves.
Constructed as evidently for companionship, their yearnings are more
mental than physical. They are less conscious of any bodily needs,
that is, in their normal condition, but more craving of a spiritual
sympathy; more angelic than ourselves, we may truly call them. The
point to which I would now refer, however, is the fact that, in many
instances, women are deterred from consenting to marriage upon the
ground of their own ill health; and I merely shall say that, in very
many instances, far more than is usually supposed, marriage would
prove for such ill health the most certain cure. I do not make this
remark too sweepingly, for there are some affections under which
women suffer that would only be aggravated by the change; there
are certain bars, as that of cousinship, which, on some accounts,
ought never to be passed, and there are certain physical evils of
which marriage is only but too productive. Plainly I would avow my
conviction that just as marriage should be avoided among blood
relations, for the reason that any family taint, as scrofula,
deformity, or insanity, is thus rendered nearly certain to their
children, so should the same similarity of constitution be avoided,
so far as possible, by Cœlebs in search of a wife. If, selfishly,
he would avoid defects in her, is it not his duty also to see to it
that he brings to her a constitution of his own unmarred, so far as
he himself has been concerned? And when, as is too often the case,
men who carry with them a system infected by that terrible disease of
the licentious, marry pure and unsuspecting women, a great outrage is
committed upon society, which no penance and no individual suffering
can ever efface or atone for. One of the worst features of this
whole matter, as I shall hereafter point out, is as yet generally
unknown—that the most ineradicable form of the disease has its period
of incubation; the primary sign of it may escape notice, the virus
may lie latent, and when it does exhibit itself, the party really to
blame may throw the whole enormity of the trouble upon an innocent
person, and thus, on the wreck he has made of his home, immolate its
guardian.
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