Jersey City and Its Historic SitesEaton, Harriet Phillips
History
Jersey City and Its Historic Sites
Eaton, Harriet Phillips
Jersey City (N.J.) -- History
Until October 3, 1681, all marriages in Bergen were performed in the
school-house, thenceforth in the church, it was the custom to be
married in the presence of the congregation either by the minister
or the Voorleezer, if by the latter, the record bore the clause "in
the presence of the Court of Bergen." In the early days the usual fee
was f6 in wampum, paid over to the church funds. Often a collection
was taken up among the wedding guests for the poor. There are several
instances of the kind on record. There was no almshouse until recent
years, and in the early days the town paid for the board of the poor,
but the method of arranging the matter sounds very strange nowadays.
It seems from the records that the poor dependent upon the town were
sold to the lowest bidder. Winfield quotes the following: "At Bergen
Town meeting Dec. 15th, 1784, at a public Outcry is sold Enoch Earle
to the lowest bidder for the sum of seven pounds, ten shillings, the
conditions are as follows, the byer is to find the said Enoch Earle a
Good Bed, Washing, Lodging and Victuals, and mending his close; the
Overseers of the Poor are to find all the New Close and then the said
Enoch Earle is to work for the Byer as much as he is able to do until
the year's End."
BURIAL CUSTOMS.
The burial customs were probably the same as those of their fatherland
and very peculiar in some respects. The most important character was
the Aanspreker, upon whom rested the whole responsibility of the
affair. Immediately upon a death he was notified, and at once repaired
to the sterfhuis (house of the deceased) with a few sheets of mourning
paper, upon which he took down the names of friends to be notified of
the death, and marked those who were to be invited as bearers or as
mourners. Until after the funeral he had full charge of all details.
If necessary he appointed assistants, in case the deceased was very
rich or very prominent there were often ten or even twenty Aansprekers
employed to announce the death, and one, usually an old servant of the
family, went in the middle of the street, walking slowly with bowed
head and face buried in a large mourning handkerchief and led by two
Aansprekers, one on each side, while the others were doing the "wete"
or announcement at the houses. On these occasions all were dressed in
low shoes, black stockings, black knickerbockers, a black cutaway coat
covered by a long, flowing black mantle, with a white cravat or bands
and a queer looking three-cornered hat or "steek," from one corner of
which to the right floated a long black crape streamer, whilst upon the
left corner was pinned a rosette showing the sex of the deceased and if
married or single.
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